Is this taken woman/mother into me at all? Seems to be flirting...

She has a 3 year old and a man, but not married for some reason.

We've only pretty recently begun talking and getting along. I've worked with her about 3 months and we've only gotten along like this for two weeks or so.

She is somewhat touchy. She asked if I was happy she'd be working a particular day with me for a few weeks and I rolled my eyes, acted irritated and she laughed, pushed me gently in the back before I said that no, I liked her. A couple times she just hits my arm when she agrees with me or thinks something is funny and sometimes walks into me (? hard to explain what happens here) when talking to me. I obviously like when she touches me at all.

When saying I was working on getting thick/big glutes she affirmed that I was already there and also commented that I had noticeable breasts through my shirt. She was talking like she approved. Today, asked for some $1 bills as change and she said no..that I would have to go strip to get some ones. I replied that I wouldn't make it as a stripper and she said "Why? You have those C cup breasts." Cleaning something at work, she walked up close to me and said "every inch of that better be clean" in a playfully bossy voice and I said something about how if she was manager I wouldn't do sh+t. She walked off smiling and said "oh girl you are so..." and didn't finish.

I know that there's some excitement in my eyes when talking to her and she seems to respond positively to it. A lot of other straight girls don't feed off of that...rather, they might back off a bit.

Before really ever talking to her, she did randomly tell me that her daughter loves someone on youtube that has my name and said that she thinks of me when her daughter goes on about her. Again I didn't know her well at this point so the "I think of you when" bit stood out to me. I actually still don't know her all that well.

Kept asking why I don't work Fridays (she works this day). Seems to want me around.


I'm not trying to steal her away. She has a daughter with the guy. I'm just happy with a little flirting here and there if it is flirting at all. It seems pretty harmless...I've seen her and her man in pictures and he looks like he loves her. And if I was the reason something happened between them, I wouldn't be able to take his place as a guardian, etc. And honestly, I'm not a forward person at all. I couldn't do anything about it even if I wanted to.

I just get giddy interacting with her sometimes...a little fun flirting..the idea of her being attracted to me. I'm happy with just that. If we could be friends with some flirting.. I admittedly do think about us doing sexual things together. I just know it'll never happen.

What do you think?

 

.....bump....

 

Thanks for looking into it. She definitely likes me as a friend?

I have heard that a lot of women are just really comfortable with their female friends. I don't understand it at all...Lesbians never get this comfortable flirting with and touching guy friends. Why do straight girls get this way with lesbians/bi girls?...

But it would explain her behavior while in a serious relationship with a guy if she thinks it's all just harmless.

 

No, I haven't mentioned that I'm bisexual.

lol that could potentially end the flirting

 

Don't want a relationship with her but I'm totally ok with the flirting.

Today she discussed some character on her show being held naked and tortured or something...I cut in and asked if it was her - keeping naked men. She cracked up. She later came up to me and brought up that sex-torture chamber again and randomly said that I would be the first one she'd keep there.

A little later today, when I asked for ones (again), she asked if it was for me to go see strippers. I joked that I was going to head out and hire a stripper - said I needed my fun too. She randomly said that she was going to hire me to perform for her - do a little dance.

These were both in front of other people. But when a friend had come up and asked what we were talking about, she didn't want to say.