This is... the start of my third month, I guess? yes, third month being out to myself as androgyne/bigender/genderfluid. (Question: what are the different meaning-shades and connotations with these terms? I'm still unsure which best to use.) Which is amazing. I'm taking things slow expression-wise, but just knowing who I am and who I can be is, yes, amazing. I know we are not anywhere slightly close to perfect tolerance as a society, but just living in a time when the ideas of gender identity and non-binary sex exist in culture is so, so cool. I am still not out to many people other than myself; some family, a couple of friends. I'm moving cities to study (!) in a month or so, I'm kind of thinking I will make a thing for that of developing a self-expression reflective of my actual self, and come out to everyone I know before I leave. Maybe. That last bit is scary; everyone I know is a rough crowd. But I think I should, I think I owe it. (Clarification: rough crowd in the performer's sense, not in the, they will come to my window at night and throw stones at me sense.) (I think.) So yeah. Hello everyone. Thank-you for being here. I'm Raini. Hopefully you'll be hearing more from me. ---------- Post added 25th Jan 2017 at 10:31 AM ---------- Alright, the banana was an accident. I will examine the emoji shortcuts....
Welcome to EC! Also, from what you are asking, it sounds like you believe yourself to be not male, not female, but a combination. Best answer I could give(!) <-and this banana is totally necessary.
Thank-you! I love this place already, have been browsing threads. :eusa_danc(!) And that is a great answer. Long may the necessary bananas dance.
