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When did you get your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

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  1. guitar

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    Girlfriend - 17.
    Boyfriend - 24 or so.
     
  2. OGS

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    Girlfriend--probably about 14
    Boyfriend--about a month after coming out--21 or 22 I suppose
     
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    I was 16 when I got my first girlfriend.
     
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    First boyfriend at the age of 13.
    First girlfriend at the age of 17.
     
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    I believe my first BF was back in my 7th grade year XD but it wasn't anything special just random
     
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    I got my first girlfriend when I was 13.

    I got my first boyfriend yesterday actually, so 16. :slight_smile:
     
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    I asked my girlfriend out January 9th of this year. We had previously been best friends for two years so making the transition was easy. I'm 15 btw
     
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    I have never been in a relationship

    Unless you count online relationship (which I don't tend to) then I was 16 and it lasted all of 2 months.
     
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    I had my first girlfriend at the age of 15-16 (lasted 17months) and she was also my only real relationship (but I don't mind, I think I prefer being on my own)
     
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    I was 22 with my first girlfriend (she asked me out). Then I went through 9 ex's self destructing while in the closet. Ironically my first time dating as myself I found my soul-mate.
     
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    I've never been in a relationship.
     
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    My first girlfriend was probably one of the most forced and awkward experiences I've ever had. I was 15 years old when it happened, just became a Freshman in high school, and I basically asked out the first girl who bothered to talk to me on a regular basis, cause she was in my art class.

    I first asked her to the school dance, which was a super casual affair, no slow dancing, since we still barely knew each other. And then a day or so after the dance, I took a chance and asked her to be my girlfriend. Based on her side of the story, this really put her on the spot. Because she could tell how vulnerable I was when I asked, and she was just too nice to say no. So for weeks, we both forced ourselves to play the parts of boyfriend and girlfriend; her because she wasn't sure how to tell me break it to me that she didn't feel anything, and me because I just thought there were things you were supposed to do, even if I didn't want to. We actually pecked each other (I use that word purposefully) on the lips every single day at the bus stop for 3 whole weeks. That is until she broke it off by writing a letter in Orange ink that she then handed to her best friend to deliver to me.

    I don't blame her at all for anything. I was desparate, she was super nice, I had put her on the spot, and there was of course nothing of note between us. We knew next to nothing about each other, so there was never any foundation to build upon.

    My 2nd and last relationship actually had the roles reversed, which has taught me that I must be sure to build the next relationship on real love and attraction towards someone else and everything that they are, not just a few friendly conversations. A date or two, yes, but not a whole thing, cause it'll never last.
     
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    First "girlfriend" was 12, later 16 or 17 or so - you know, when you can go out and do stuff.
    First boyfriend around 24-25, and I haven't looked back :slight_smile:
     
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    My boyfriend right now is my first boyfriend and next week is our first anniversary! :slight_smile:
     
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    I was 18. We met online (not through a dating site). It was a LDR, which ended after two months because we were so far apart and meeting each other seemed impossible. It was the best decision we could make, but it took me quite a while to get over her.

    I've never dated anyone in real life. I'm a very awkward person that spends a lot of time alone at home. Very difficult to meet new people and fall in love that way :lol: :icon_sad:
     
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    I got my first girlfriend at 19 (so earlier this year)
     
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    Girlfriend: 11. I know. We had been friends since second grade and when we found out we were both bi (I identified as bi at the time) we just decided to go out even though we weren't attracted to each other sexually at all. I was only 11. It lasted about 3 months. (Wow)

    Boyfriend: 12. Again, I know. I confessed to him first and he started fancying like crazy and it was adorable. We are still together and he is the most amazing person I have ever met.
     
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    The closest thing was with a girl when I was 10, but we didn't ACTUALLY date, just hang out every possible chance. And, yes, there were indeed people at that age dating that I knew
     
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    Never but I really want a boyfriend.
     
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    My current partner is the only boyfriend I've had, we've been together since October of last year. Never had a girlfriend thus so far.