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Watching porn in public

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PatrickUK, Jan 19, 2017.

  1. Kodo

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    Eh, no.

    I mean, come on. You cannot control your urges just to wait until you are alone? You've got to share it with everyone around?

    Viewing porn in public makes everyone around uncomfortable and is extremely innapropriate if a child saw it. I normally have no qualms when it comes to other people - they can of course do what they like.

    I don't find a legitimate reason that people should do so. It's base and inconsiderate. Just like you shouldn't jack off in a public place, you shouldn't show sex videos in one either.
     
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    I don't agree that watching porn in a public place is okay. But some people are exhibitionists in the sense that they are doing something taboo/sneaky in a place where they can be caught out (short of having sex in a public place, or flashing innocent people).

    I think watching porn should be done privately. If you really can't keep your obvious addiction under control, then at least have the common decency to watch it in a bathroom stall, with sound muted completely, or headphones on so that only you can hear it. Either way, I don't agree with people watching porn in public settings. Just my 2c
     
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    Er... No...
     
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    Seems a bit much. Though we did have boys in high school that would go crazy in the computer lab... Seems the majority of human behaviors baffle me anyway though.

    I'd say be patient and wait, personally. You'd probably save yourself a lot of embarrassment.
     
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    I've never personally seen anyone watching porn in public anywhere.
     
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    I think it's pretty weird. I really don't understand the need to actually watch it in public...

    Same with those who look at it on their phone or whatever in a bathroom and jerk off in a stall. :confused:
     
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    I wouldnt do it because I want to masturbate when I watch porn or it's just frustrating. So if their also masturbating then that's definitely fucked up. If they aren't that's still very inconsiderate since kids (or people who just don't want to see for god's sake!) could see it if they're not holding it at just the right angle so that nobody ever watches. Also anyone who repeatedly watches porn in public places sounds like a sociopath to me. That is not normal behaviour for someone with natural inhibitions and respect.
     
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    Well, porn and anything that has to do with sex or erotic is taboo and frowned upon in today's society. So it's quite inappropriate to watch porn in public. If it was a different world where it didn't matter, then it is fine.
     
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    It's inappropriate.
     
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    idk but it makes me uncomfortable to the max
     
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    Exactly what I was thinking. Either they need to adjust their work-home ratio, or have a porn addiction.
     
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    I don't consider myself a prude, but yeah, that's really not okay.
     
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    Who would do that in public? I just cant wrap my brain around it.

    And no. I do not think it is okay do watch it in public. If someone can see you watching porn on you phone thats like them seeing you naked in public but worse.
     
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    It almost seems a little predatory, eh? I can't think of any reason to watch porn on a city bus that wouldn't be gross.
    ..However... I have read erotica on public transit before. My intentions weren't to get aroused, I had just bought a new book and wanted to read the wlw poems lol :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't think porn should be viewed in public. Porn is not something that someone should be watching in a public place. If someone wants to watch porn it should be watched in private.