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may have been outed

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by lesbian188, Dec 25, 2016.

  1. lesbian188

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    Here's the situation-
    my mom looked at my phone the other day and i had text messages on there that were me coming out to my friends (who reacted very well by the way :slight_smile:) but like idk if she looked at the text messages. she hasn't said anything about me being a lesbian... maybe she doesn't know?? do i just let it slide and act like everythings normal or do i come out to her just to see her reaction?
     
  2. galaxythief

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    If you feel comfortable telling her, then do it. If she's accepting then she'll probably become closer to you knowing that you trusted her enough to tell her that rather than her figuring it out.
     
  3. lesbian188

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    Thank you. I probably won't tell her because I have a feeling she'll have a bad reaction. Plus I'm 14 and she'll say it's a phase.