This week I came back to read this forum and I noticed many people of all ages are going through difficult times and some of them wonder if they'll ever find happiness. May I take this moment to assure you happiness is possible? Just one year ago, I would never have imagined I would meet the love of my life and hear him say yes, he wants to marry me. I was very lonely most of my life. I didn't kiss anyone until age 19, and didn't kiss anyone else for 9 years after that. I didn't have sex until age 28, and my second time was 4 years later. I thought myself to be ridiculously clumsy and inexperienced. I felt ugly (most of the time I still do). I had no idea how to flirt, how to seduce, how to speak and move in a sexy way. Honestly, I still don't. When I decided to try online dating seriously, I wrote my profile to full detail. It took a bit over two years to cut through the false starts and find someone who after some months fell in love with me, and took a plane from his country to mine, and after some more days agreed to marry me. I'm getting married in mid-January. I am happier than I imagined I was capable of. So take this as a sort of "it gets better" message: happiness exists. Even for someone as romantically clueless as me.
Your story is inspiring! Thanks for sharing it! Congratulations! I hope everything goes well on your wedding. If you feel comfortable, keep us updated!
Thank you so much for sharing this! It's lovely to hear such wonderful news. Congratulations! Best of luck to you and your future husband, and have a good wedding!
Thank you for sharing your moving story. It is wonderful that you found someone, and are getting married. Congratulations! Enjoy your wedding day, and I wish you all the best. Please feel free to keep us updated.
Update: we got married on the 16th of January. We spent a couple of weeks at a hotel, but I still had to work for one of those weeks, so we sort of got a taste of what ordinary married life will feel like.
Congratulations, I'm so happy you found the "one" ....it's not easy but you did i hope u guys have a long marriage.