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Do you find the opposite sex attractive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RainbowsFactory, Dec 23, 2016.

  1. Andrew99

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    I mean yeah I can see a girl and think she's cute or pretty but I don't wanna have sex with her.
     
  2. PlantSoul

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    Good question. I can see where a man would be considered attractive by society and I can(or could 'see') physical attractiveness in some men before I came to terms with my sexuality. Usually, these men were either Asian or looked like they could have Asian heritage somewhere down the line. Men like Jaden Smith and Vincent Cassel, to give you an idea. The mind is a fascinating and tricky thing. Since coming out to myself, it's like I can no longer look at these types of men and say that I find them psychically attractive. Nor, can I fool myself into believing otherwise. It's extremely clear to me now that I feel absolutely nothing towards men when I look at them. I've tried, but I get nothing.
     
  3. SkyAbove

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    Not at all. A guy could look good and I acknowledge that, and I can appreciate that, but that doesn't make me feel anything at all sexually/romantically. It took me a while to realise that there is a difference between acknowledging somebody's physique and between being actually attracted to them. This really confused me when I was questioning my sexuality years ago.
     
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    Very much. I've always loved the way guys look/feel.
     
  5. I love people in general.
     
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    Very slightly.
    There was a point when I thought that I might be bisexual, but I thought it over and came to the conclusion that I'm not (This all happened when I was still uncertain about my gender, and didn't really know what was going on).
     
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    I do actually feel a smidge of that certain women always clothed are attractive. But I never want to have sex with them at all. It's like I can find them attractive and pretty but I can't ever have sex with them.
     
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    I think that guys look cool because of how different they look from women, but I don't LIKE like guys.
     
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    Well I like feminine guys, so maybe .I guess I could find a chick attractive but one second under the sheets and I would instantly loose it haha
     
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    This is how i feel before i accepted myself i'd try to force myself to sexually like them but now as I accept myself more even the noticing and attraction are fading away.
     
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    I wouldn't want to have sex with a girl but I can recognize when they're pretty, if that makes sense...
     
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    Saaaame :lol: I have no standards when it comes to gender
     
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    uh yeah

    girls are nice
     
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    Yes, with a preference for androgynous/feminine men :slight_smile: .