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Gay men with str8 men crush vs Str8 men with lesbian crush

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by asiarotic, Dec 18, 2016.

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  1. asiarotic

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    Which one do you think is worse?

    Surely both are unrequited love but I still feel there is some different due to nature of opposite sex social interaction.
     
    #1 asiarotic, Dec 18, 2016
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    It really depends on the people involved and the situation. Some guys(gay or straight) seem to think they're entitled to attention/affection from there crushes. Some lesbians no doubt love the attention and like to play games, leading guys on. Most times both are decent people and eventually get over it.
     
    #2 BrookeVL, Dec 18, 2016
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    Both are tragic, but different. In my experience, straight men are just a lot more rude and entitled toward lesbians, thinking they can fuck them straight. Why do that when there are so many straight (and even bi) women in the world? I have more sympathy for the gay guy with a crush since non-straight men are harder to find, and entitlement is less common due to fear of homophobic violence.
     
    #3 Creativemind, Dec 18, 2016
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    ^ What the other two people said. It's really just about if the person feels "entitled" to their love- and while it's more common with straight men because some are homophobes and think they can "turn a girl straight", it is still common for gay men to think they can "turn other men gay" and I don't think either one of those scenarios is okay...
     
    #4 iiimee, Dec 18, 2016
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