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Hints?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Shadowgirl37, Dec 17, 2016.

  1. Shadowgirl37

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    How do I subtly hint towards my parents that I think I'm gay without straight up (pun intended) saying "Mom I'm gay". I will come out so it's just a matter of when and I would love a situation where her reply would be "honey I've known for a while". I was just looking for hints to drop so coming out would be easier and less of a shock for everyone involved.
     
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    Could jokingly talk about how 2016 has been one heck of a ride especially with gay marriage being passed in the US and so forth. Kind of draw something out of them. If that's too subtle, could always say," I wish I could've been in D.C. for all the historic events this summer." :slight_smile:

    Really will depend on how accepting they are of gays. What I did was asked my dad for dinner one night to talk to him about something bothering me. He guessed before they had the waitress had a chance to ask what we were going to have to drink
     
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    Make comments on attractive women..show interest in things relating to gay culture..
     
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    Ask her what she thinks of Ellen :O
     
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    The problem there, Nikky, is that everyone likes Ellen! :wink:
     
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    Just be it, you don't have to make a public statement, just be you eventually she'll figure it out.
     
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    Buy yourself a rainbow/pride necklace or bracelet and talk about LGBT issues more openly.
     
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    I've been wanting to know the exact same thing! Hints seem like good groundwork for "the big come-out". Maybe start talking about a crush or someone you simply think is cute using gender neutral pronouns.