Hello all! I just joined this website a while back and thought that this website can help me get advices from some of the nicest people on the earth who are here willing to help confused youth! Alright so.. I am 14, living in India. I am a bisexual (most probably).. I am in love with both a girl and a man..lol. The girl is in my grade and we have been together for 2 years, and I definitely love her.. but a few months back, when a new semester started, and I came to HS, I found that I have a crush on my English Teacher. We've a 25 year gap. Recently, I have been using facebook as a way of telling him that I love him in some indirect ways..but nothing seemed to worked and he unfriended me (don't know why)... I have told the girl I love that I am in love with that teacher and asked her if she can tell him about me..Idk yet if she did or not because I haven't been able to contact her. Idk if he loves me or not, I am the highest scorer in his class and he definitely likes me as I am good at his class..Sometimes it seems that yea, he feels something, then the next second he proves me wrong.. I am so confused.. also, our religions are different..so..lol Idc for religions though, even the girl who I love is a different religion than mine..so...umm..can anyone help? Shall I tell him?
hi there,,i'm new to this website but i have some advice for you,,first of all, him unfriending you from facebook is a pretty good sign he's not interested...you probably don't wanna hear this but that's a good thing. If someone that is 25 years older than you is interested that's a bad thing when your only 14. I strongly advise you to stick to people in your own age group...there are a lot of predators out there that look to take advantage or hurt people your age and it's very dangerous to tempt fate in that way. I hope this has helped...feel free to talk to me anytime
Don't be confused between love and lust... At present, you're 14 years old which is extremely young, wish I could be that age and do it all again! I remember when I was near your age, I also feel in love, or what I thought was love, with a man much older than myself. Back then, we used to talk and look at each other over webcam using MSN Messenger. It's only when I look at it now, it was not really love. The only love I was capable of was the love for my parents and family, the rest was lust. Maybe you'll understand what I mean when you're a little bit older. I can only compare your circumstances to mine when I think back to how I was back at your age.
