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Sending nudes: yes or no?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by anthonybg, Dec 8, 2016.

  1. PatrickUK

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    Honestly, I don't think it's a good idea. It's the sort of thing that can come back to haunt you.
     
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    I would never send nudes.
     
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    People can exchange nudes if it's legal, everyone involved is okay with it, and they accept the risk that pictures might leak elsewhere. No matter how much you know about computers... someone else probably knows more

    Personally, I don't see the point. This reminds me of when one of my friends asked why I sent her so many pictures of my literal weapons XD
     
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    I do much more than sending nudes, it sort of is a way to help me accept my body. At the same time though I always worry one day something bad will happen from it.
     
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    I personally can't see myself ever sending someone nudes. It's just not really something that I'm into and I feel like unless it's a serious relationship with a lot of trust to be very careful with promiscuous photos.
     
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    Only if both people are okay with it... and of legal age
     
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    Sexting nude pics and videos was part of what got me discharged from the military. One of my guys made a fake profile, gained my trust, and got me at my most vulnerable. Just remember, you can't take back what you've sent! I broke up with a bf who was exchanging nudes with one of my best friends that he met through me. They didn't see an issue with it...i didn't think it was right and felt betrayed. So...if want my two cents...I'd say don't do it. Save it for a surprise for when you meet someone.

    ---------- Post added 9th Dec 2016 at 02:31 AM ----------

    Just go to google and search revenge porn tumblr...there's all those nudies Chip was talking about. I learned the hard way. My bf doesn't even get nudes from me!
     
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    I think text is okay. But I would never send nudes. You never know where they're going. Maybe a friend finds these pics and puts them somewhere...

    However, what I would probably do is a professionall nude photo shooting. But for that I need to get my body in shape :lol:
     
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    I don't know about the law where you live, but in England I'm pretty sure it's illegal to send or be in possession of the nudes of a minor (i.e. under 18), whether they were sent consensually or not. There can also be many repercussions from sending nudes, most of which have already been mentioned earlier in this thread.
     
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    I would at the very least keep your face out of it...you don't want someone seeing it later on down the line you never intended, hard to prove who's butt, boobs, penis, or vagina is without a face...just thinking long term. A lot of those pics end up online eventually
     
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    Nahhhhh. I think seeing the human body naked should be more of a privilege and not something to given out easily. I agree, it could definitely come back to haunt you. there's a lot of nudes posted by exes on social media, especially on Reddit.
     
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    I figure why not? At the end of the day, it's just a part of anatomy and the general rule is: "if your faith isn't in them (the person you're sending them to), your face isn't in them (the photos)". Just keep everything consensual, of age and amiable and you're good. And if they get leaked? Oh no, my anatomy has joined the morass of other anatomically explicit photos out there.
     
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    Between two adults in a relationship is the best idea in my opinion if you're even going to send them at all...
    I think you can go ahead if both people say they want to or are fine with seeing them as long as they're over 18 because otherwise it's child pornography in UK law
     
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    My own case and standpoint: "Very much not."

    I don't judge, but see too great a risk and too insignificant a reward.
     
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    haha there's this fake Twitter account with Hilary Clinton and her picture on it and it says "I'm still waiting for my nudes from Justin Bieber. :lol:
     
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    I actually enjoy sending nudes despite all the stigma against sending nudes. Showing off my body is something I want to do.
     
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    I think it's fine as long as it's between two people who are comfortable with each other but it's totally up to the individual person
     
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    That is the bottom line, TRUST. If you really trust that person, do what u feel is right. But, you folks that want to send nude pictures, be careful when doing so.
     
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    As intimate and personal as it's meant to be, I find it ironically detached and isolating. Maybe it's a distance thing. Some things are just better shared in person. :icon_wink