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Found out that crush is gay, but screwed it up

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Anonymous, Dec 5, 2016.

  1. Quantumreality

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    I'd say that you probably shouldn't do anything right now.

    Asking if he likes you in response to his text that he missed you isn't on the same level as kissing him. It might even be that he was embarrassed by what he texted you in the first place.

    Why not just give him time? If he takes some time and responds as if this whole thing never occurred, then you might want to consider just go along with that.
     
  2. Anonymous

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    You are probably right. I kind of hope he is embarassed because that would be a good thing I guess. I'm going to wait untill there is a natural moment to text him and just act like nothing happened. Thanks for the advice.