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Have you ever had a crush on a straight person?

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  1. Wolfwing

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    The title says it all.
     
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    Every single deep crush I've had has ended up being on straight people. It's annoying but oh well, it's bound to happen a few times at least. Hopefully it won't be the case the next time I fall hardcore for a guy.
     
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    Oh boy, when HAVEN'T I got a crush on a straight person?

    It's literally impossible to tell with the kind of people I like. They're masculine, single and don't talk much about relationships.

    THEN, they mention a girl they like, and it's instant crush kill.

    Why are gay people so rare? It's not fair :/
     
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    Maybe a slight crush, but luckily, I have yet to get a deep intense crush on a straight girl.
     
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    I'm...actually dating a straight person now.

    Outside of that, yes, I am almost certain I have.
     
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    Definitely... hopefully my current crush isn't straight
     
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    yes, sadly
     
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    Yeah it happens often.
     
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    All of them. Every single crush I've ever had. Except one.
     
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    Yes. The worst thing about it is that I know the straight girls I crush on wouldn't be into me because they're into guys and they see me as a girl, when in fact I am also a guy. It's actually quite confusing... As for straight guys, those who get attracted me see me as a girl, and I hate that. So much.

    Being trans and in the closet can get so complicated when it comes to relationships.
     
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    Almost every crush I've ever had is on a straight person. Although there are a few that sometimes I wonder...
     
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    I suppose I have back in the day when I was dating women. And I have been interested in a couple of guys who at the time I thought were straight but both of them turned out to be gay. I guess I just like gay guys.:lol:
     
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    Unless they were in the closet, yes.
     
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    this thread describes my life quite accurately.
     
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    Only three of my crushes have been queer. First queer crush was a bi girl in my friend group. I really only crushed on her cause she was the first openly queer girl I'd met. Current crush is pan, and she knows I like her. Whether or not she likes me as anything other than a friend is a mystery.
     
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    The first 2 weeks I worked at a kindergarten this year I had a crush on the guy who was my mentor.
    That crush went away fast since he had such a toxic humour, was teasing me so much and such :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Sarcastic humour too.
    I still think he's handsome. And he is a great guy, but that teasing, just no.

    He's together with a girl, but I don't think he's that happy with her. He never smiles in any pics together with her.
    I wouldn't be surprised if he's together with her just to be able to say at job interviews that he's in a relationship. Such answers is better in job interviews, especially when applying for a job related to kids. Men here get suspected for being pedos when they like kids and want to work in a kindergarten or elementary school, so not being single might help against that stigma.
     
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    99.9% of my crushes have been on "straight" guys. I absolutely adore the guys who act like they just came back from Narnia but are "straight" .... :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Yes, I've had crushes on straight guys in primary, secondary and high school, and in university too. I never acted on it though. Throughout all those times I was still in denial about being gay.
     
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    I've never had a crush on someone I have personally met. Never.

    On the other hand, I have taken a fancy to some actors. Oddly enough, I find myself really attracted to certain actors and then later find out they are gay. Perhaps gay men are inherently hotter, haha.
     
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    Yeah, once. Nowadays, straight women are a turn off for me though. They are either not interested or want to use you as an experiment so what's the point?