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When did you have your firsts?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Alder, Nov 17, 2016.

  1. WhiteWinter

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    Sex: not old enough
    Dating: kindergarten( it wasn't even a real relationship[it was a girl ;( ])
     
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    life long nudist.
    first OS with another boy at age 9.
    first sex with a girl at age 11.
    first with someone intersex. (XY) female living as a male at age 24.
     
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    Dating: I don't know if they count as dates, but I've met with some of my friends, including my crush.
     
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    First kiss: girl don't remember
    First kiss: boy, hanging out with Mike and Matthew, sitting in the car Matthew says turn around when I do he kissed on the mouth. I was too scared to do anything back.
     
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    First relationship: I think I was about 10 or 11. It was my longest relationship to-date. We dated for 11 months, then he dumped me :frowning2:

    First guy kiss: It happened when I was 12. The guy was 12 too.

    First girl kiss: I was 16.

    First time sex: Also happened when I was 16, I deeply regret that day...........

    First sexual experience with a girl: I actually forgot about this, but I have actually had my first lesbian sexual experience. I think I was about 11 or 12. It was with my cousin's daughter. She initiated everything, even though I am older. It was wonderful. Neither of us reached climax because we didn't really know what it's about, or that it was "wrong" (in the eyes of homophobes). And it didn't bother us that we're related either. However, thinking back on it now, I cringe because it was, actually, incest *shudders*. At least she's cute :shrug: Lol. I call it childhood experimentation though, not sex. Wow, can't believe I just admitted to this online. Oh well, lol. :icon_redf

    First time punching a guy that couldn't keep his hands to himself, after being told numerous times to stop: That was roughly 7 or so years ago. Felt gooooood. Sorry, just had to throw that in there.

    *Awkward smile, fidgeting with clothes and clearing throat* Yeah, okay. Uhm... hey, look! A unicorn flying over a rainbow!!! *Quietly sneaks away*
     
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    First kiss: 18
    First date: 18
    First sex: 18

    ...a lot has happened in the past year.
     
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    First kiss/relationship: 16.
    First sex: 13 if you don't count abuse.
     
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    Darn, I'v never to all had any these firsts...yet :slight_smile:
     
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    First kiss with a guy: too young to remember.
    First sex with a guy: just turned 15

    First kiss with a girl: 16
    First sex with a girl: 19
     
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    First girl kiss and first sex with woman 23... it was so horrible...i hated every part of me...i was too nervous, i was not in to her, i was embarrassed, stigmatized, i hated her face lol etc
    First kiss with a man (to make a girl jealous): 19
    First sex with man: Never
    First good sex with woman and dating: later at 23 with another woman after some good sex lol she was really generous lol... we broke up coz of distance...i stayed almost two year without sex and dating thinking the next person will ruin the good memories
    Anyway am cool now...have a compatible sex partner (not dating)
    feels good to think back now
     
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    First female kiss: 1981
    First sex with a woman: 1994
    First male kiss: never
    First male sex: 2009
     
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    First kiss and my first sexual experience was in fall 2015, when I was 20 (almost 21). It's been my only experience thus far.

    It was with a guy I was talking too on a hook up app. lol.
     
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    15 for all three firsts. Awkward but I don't have regrets. As a side note, our relationship lasted two weeks
     
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    Kiss: do family members count 'cause then since the age of zero but else never.
    Sex: never
    Date: never
     
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    First kiss: 14
    First time having sex: 15
    First relationship: 14-16

    ...all the same girl.
     
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    First kiss would've been around 14. I told my two best friends at the time I hadn't kissed anyone, and both of them made-out with me. (True friendship. lol)

    Never had sex. Or at least, it depends on what you would classify as sex. But Im'ma not get too much into that.

    I first dated someone at 17. We didn't date too long however, as she loved PDA and that eventually became a deal-breaker for me.
     
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    Kissed girls at nine sex at fifteen. Date was 18 years. Nothing special.
     
  20. RMember1

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    18 for all three firsts.