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Are you crushing?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Sealgirl19, Oct 11, 2016.

  1. Gunsmoke

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    Yes! I'm 18 and he's turning 28 next month... :icon_redf Why am I cursed to always be attracted to people too old for me?

    (*hug*) Thanks! :slight_smile:
     
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    Yes, but the one deal breaker is he has a girlfriend. :lol:
     
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    One of my guilty pleasures is the thought of "nabbing" a guy from his girlfriend/fiance/wife (better if she becomes an unsuspecting voyeur).
     
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    I think so. There's this straight girl classmate that happen to be building a friendship with me, I guess. I try to make sure she doesn't feel uncomfortable with me as I am out as bisexual, but she doesn't know about who is my crush
     
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    I've had loads of crushes. Right now, an awfully cute guy who's never made it QUITE clear of his orientation. Usually by this stage I'd have got over him, but I've been receiving mixed signals, so this is tricky. He has this habit of flicking his hair that always makes me look around :wink:
     
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    So hard and I've been trying to stop. I moved into college about a month ago and met this hella cute boy and I was so sure he was gay until I found out he has a girlfriend. And his girlfriend is super cool and they're so good together but I still hang on to hope and it kills me. Luckily I'm starting to kick this thing and think of him as a friend.
     
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    *Raises hand*
     
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    Gosh, when am I not? I'm a hopeless romantic
     
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    I got a huge crush on a female friend of mine, she's bi and gender-fluid and holey moley I can't stop thinking about her! We both share the same sense of humor and interests, shes short (she's 5ft 2 and I'm 5ft 9), shes guatemalan and she's got thick thighs that save lives! It's my daily goal to make her laugh just so she'll be happy, our frienship is like, "omg I hate you so much stop with the puns" (im the one that never stops with the puns :badgrin:slight_smile:. I wanna ask her out but I don't know if I'll ruin our close friendship, so I'm perfectly content with us being friends :icon_bigg
     
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    Yeah. I even suspect he is gay and closeted however I'm reluctantly doubtful that I will ever see him again. I really wish we would've hit it off when we were living in the same place because we shared a lot of the same interests and I really enjoyed his company. But I dunno, maybe he is straight and I am just blinded by infatuation. I just got the feeling that it was mutual but he was closeted.
     
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    Yes. I spotted her months ago at an event, drunkenly and foolishly introduced myself to her when saw her again shortly after. Then a couple of weeks ago came across her on a dating app (meaning she's at last curious about girls..) and then actually met her properly in real life recently.

    I know that all sounds borderline stalkerish. I'm unsure how to go about it, I doubt she's interested and she's quite shy!
     
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    Very hard actually... I absolutely hate falling for straight girls.
     
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    Yeah and she's 19 years older than me :grin:
     
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    I have a crush on a girl. She is literally the only person who keeps me sane. Only problem is she's completely left me behind in the dust as a friend and I feel like shit.
     
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    I think I am...slowly but surely.
     
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    No, I'm just apathetic these days. Hah, crushes, nothing but future pain.
     
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    Not at all. Not for a long time now. I don't know anyone at the moment to have a crush on anyway, so.

    I'm not sure if I'm sad about not having that feeling in my life at this moment, happy that I don't have to endure the pain associated with it, or regretful over having felt it before and it having left a hole in me ever since.
     
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    If I am, I am in utter denial.