Dream about my BFF

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  1. BelleLey

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    I've had two dreams now in which I was dating my best friend ( a girl) , there's nothing sexual about these dreams we're just together and we seem happy. I was really surprised though because I've never thought about her that way. My mum said maybe she was the embodiment of the perfect woman for me. I don't know if it's mean anything, any thoughts ?
     
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    This has happened to me before...I once had a very sensual dream about a girl I barely knew from school. And after I saw her in that light, I started crushing on her.

    I had never thought about dating her but I had admired her body quite often.
    And the dream made it seem that she was a very enjoyable person as a girlfriend. But she was a little on the ill-mannered side, so I never bothered to show interest in her even though the dream was very nice.
     
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    It's a little different though since i've known her for 8 years now and I don't have a crush on her which is why it these dreams were so surprising.
     
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    How did you feel when you woke up? Did you feel weird about it
     
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    No it wasn't weird, I was actually in a very good mood when I woke up because I was really happy in m'y dream
     
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    Perhaps you have subconscious feelings towards her that are trying to push through?
     
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    Perhaps you have subconscious feelings towards her that are trying to push through?
     
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    I had a dream about my best friend once, it wasn't sexual either nor were we officially girlfriends in it but it was definitely something along those lines. I woke up like you, a little freaked out and wondering if it had some sort of subconscious meaning but realized with the time that no, as much as I like my best friend, I definitely do not have a crush on her. I don't think dream means much to be honest.

    I once had a dream that I had sex with my best friend's ex boyfriend, as good as the dream was I definitely did not fancy the guy in real life at all, not sure what happened in my brain that night but it definitely didn't mean much at all. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm probably reading too much into this, I've seen her since and I haven't felt anything unusual. I tend to look for clues to know for sure if gay or not. Overthinking much lol