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Even if you are happy being single, What do you hate about it?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RedEyeFlash, Oct 3, 2016.

  1. Totesgaybrah

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    I have yet to have my first real relationship, so I don't really know what I'm missing. I greatly look forward to cuddles on the couch in front of the fire on cold nights.:icon_redf
     
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    I've never not been single. I'm happy being me and living this crazy rollercoaster called life but I'd be happier with someone to ride along with.

    Everything everyone else already mentioned. The lack of closeness with someone. Good friends are irreplaceable but it's not the same.

    Also when I get really horny (which is most times) it's very frustrating...:bang:
     
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    I don't need someone to tell my problems to, me and my best (girl) friend have each other for that.

    It'd just be nice to have a bf I suppose. There's no intimacy in being single.
     
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    As a hopeless romantic that I am, missing out on kissing and cuddling takes quite a toll on me. I've never been in a relationship so I wouldn't know what advantages I'm enjoying right now.
     
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    To flirt, just imagine yourself as sexy and that's the aura you will give off. Be flattering but not desperate. Show confidence.
     
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    I'm generally happy being single, but I'm in a stage of life where most of my peers - friends, colleagues are in long term relationships, it means I don't actually meet that many new people so it's hard to becoming not single any time soon xx
     
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    I don't hate anything about it, but I do miss going to the cinema all the time. That's what half of my last relationship was :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I could go by myself of course, or with friends, but I'm lacking the motivation.

    I love being single. I don't think I want it to ever change.
     
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    Lack of cuddles / intimacy with someone I know and trust.
     
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    More than anything, I would have to say it's the lack of physical contact . I connect with my friends an a very deep level so I definitely don't feel like I lack a strong social connection.
     
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    I enjoy being single. I'm bad at relationships, all relationships, platonic, familial, all of them, so it's nice not worrying about being a bad SO (on top of being a bad sibling, child, and friend).

    I do miss kissing though.
     
  11. Riverhawk

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    More than anything, I would have to say it's the lack of physical contact . I connect with my friends an a very deep level so I definitely don't feel like I lack a strong social connection.
     
  12. Linthras

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    This. Plus having someone to cuddle and have sex with.

    I'm not down for being single, but at the same time I'd love to be in a relationship.
     
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    I've been single for 8 years and miss having someone to share my life with. I have to admit though, after seeing the issues my coupled friend deal with, I'm relieved to be single at times!
     
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    I don't have someone that I can just hug and show my affection to.