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Am i falling in too deep again?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Nero360, Sep 27, 2016.

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  1. Nero360

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    Thanks so much. I think i know what i have to do now, im gonna finally take action on this. Also that ending basically sums everything up.
     
    #81 Nero360, Feb 12, 2017
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    Cool, Nero360! Please let us know how things go!

    Best of luck!:slight_smile:
     
    #82 Quantumreality, Feb 12, 2017
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    OH NO! I have no idea what came over me. I went through all the work of getting him in the counselors office and even having her leave. Before i said anything i hugged him, i was confused as to why i did it but i did and he hugged me back. Then after that i just left the room, as i was leaving my counselor, in the hallway asked me why am i leaving. I ignored her and tried to get to class as soon as possible. moments later he left too. Im really angry that i didn't do what i was supposed to do. But i think he should know how i feel about him now.
     
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    Hey Nero360,

    I'm a little confused. Were you going to Come Out to him in the counselor's office?
     
    #84 Quantumreality, Feb 13, 2017
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    No, I was going to tell him that he's making me feel uncomfortable and that I want him to stop. But it was just us 2 in there, nobody else. I just felt. I think it's like i felt it was my only chance with him one on one. I just didn't know what to do or say and my body just moved on it's own.
     
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    Oh. That's what I thought you were going to do, based on what you said two posts ago, but you weren't clear. And hen when you said that you just hugged him in the counselor's office, I thought that maybe you were just having trouble Coming Out to him.

    So, what do you want to do at this point? Getting him in the counselor's office and then hugging him sent a pretty loud message. He's almost certainly going to want an explanation or at least to talk to you about it.

    Telling him to back off and stop doing the flirty-type stuff that he's been doing which bothers you would seem to be almost contradictory at this point, since you hugged him like that. Maybe you should go ahead and tell him how you feel about him? At least that way you should be able to find out if he has the same feelings for you or if he's not interested in you romantically. If he says he's not interested in you romantically, then you could ask him to stop doing the flirty-type things that bother you so much (and now he should be able to understand how those things affect you), but that you still would like to be his friend.

    Do you think you might be able to do something like that? Or maybe even write it out on a note so that, if words fail you, you could hand him the note while he's standing there in front of you?
     
    #86 Quantumreality, Feb 14, 2017
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    Yeah I think I can do that. Tbh I could just wait til March(he's going to another school). But for the meantime, I can try that.
     
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    Hey Nero360,

    I hope it goes well for you, whatever you decide to do.:slight_smile:

    But if you are still going to try to talk to him about this, doing it sooner rather than later is best because he is probably wondering what the whole deal in counselor's office was about...
     
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    For the past week ive never told him directly, but i think he gets the point. Whenever he did anything like touching and such, i looked down and walked away. Ever since hes stopped and now things have been normal. If anything comes up im gonna make a new thread
     
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    Hey Nero360,

    Thanks for the update.

    Best of luck!:slight_smile:
     
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    Looks like i can say case closed. We're awesome friends and he stopped all those affectionate actions.
     
    #91 Nero360, Mar 6, 2017
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    Hey Nero,

    Then I'm happy for you from that respect, although I'm also a little sad that he couldn't have been more than just a friend to you. Still, having a good friend is always worth it!:slight_smile:
     
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    Hey, Sorry for barging in as you are closing this thread. I just wanted to say that I read up on the thread from last year to now and that I thought it was very interesting. Because I feel I'm in the same kind of situation just that it's no use if I ask the person directly what she thinks.

    I'm sorry to hear that it wasn't what you might have hoped for. I feel for you, too.
     
    #93 Bagpuss, Mar 7, 2017
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    Thanks guys :slight_smile:
     
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