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What are your ultimate goals in life?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Robert, Aug 24, 2016.

  1. Lawrence

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    I don't really have any complicated goals. Practically all I care about is having fun and having enough money to maintain a decent lifestyle
     
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    - physically transition and align my body and mind
    - live lightly and travel often
    - join galleries and kick off my career
    - refine my work, but never stop growing as an artist
    - have personal studio space
    - learn to play an instrument, stick with it, and play it well (I've already tried like 6 things, and mastered none...)
     
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    I used to be preoccupied with finding a goal in life, but that didn't bring me any happiness. I just try to live a good life, help others and do little things that make me happy. That's all I need :slight_smile:
     
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    Win the lottery. :slight_smile:
     
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    -be more confident than I am now
    -find a place to live where I can take part in the local community
    -get a good job that I actually enjoy (been looking into a museum-related career recently)
    -move in with someone I love (platonically or otherwise)
    -surround myself with good people :slight_smile:
     
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    - Have enough money to afford a nice place to live and to be able to afford car payments and maintenance.
    - Enjoy the job that I'm working at and the city I live in.
    - Find the man to spend my life with.
    - Explore the world (to an extent that is, there are a lot of places I'm not interested in.)
     
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    * To be happy
    * To have a few good friends and a BF that are geographically close.
     
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    before I accepted myself i was really demotivated.. but now my goal is to have a hot boyfriend :slight_smile:
     
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    Who knows if i'll achieve any of these, but:
    1) to complete college and university with a good outcome
    2) get a job in the acting industry (either as a video editor or casting director)
    3) gain back the confidence I have lost
    4) come out to my family
    5) put more time & effort into friendships and relationships I have
    6) get my own apartment/house

    but mainly just to stop being negative so much and start being positive
     
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    1) Become a more confident individual
    2) Find the one I want to spend the rest of my life with
    3) Get my own apartment or house
    4) Become a successful voice over artist/ adr director
     
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    1. Become a doctor of neuroscience or psychology
    2. Have my own home in a beautiful place, with perhaps someone that I love
    3. Inspire people through my music
    4. Get to a point where I am happy with my body and who I am

    Ultimately it comes down to accomplishment, independence, relationships, inspiration, and self-acceptance.
     
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    I have one primary goal: to be a professor in a prestigious university somewhere, living in a place where I can store hundreds and hundreds of book with ample time to read them and do my own research :slight_smile: I am on the road to this, so it is not only a pipe dream.
     
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    1. go to college
    2. get a bachelor's degree
    3. get a master's degree
    4. get a doctorate
    5. become a physician
    6. marry someone and have children
    7. be admired
    8. have enough money to help my friends and family
    9. live to be at least 90 years old
    10. visit my family often