I have a crush on this girl who is also a lesbian. We met on Tumblr and I really like her. The thing is we have the same first name and both go by our first name. I was talking to a friend of mine and she asked me if I might ask her out. I said probably not because we have the same first name ad that might feel weird. My friend said I'm being ridiculous and too picky. What do you think?
You could ask the girl if it would be weird, since she's the one who'd be dating you. If she wants to date you and says it would not be weird, then it shouldn't matter what anybody else thinks. Also, sorry, should have asked first; do you think it's weird because of other people, or yourself? If it's other people, refer to my above message. If you think it's weird, then do what you want.
I don't know if I would, to be honest, but my name is rare so I doubt I would be faced with this dilemma. It's your call whether you want to ask her out or not.
I think having the same name as someone isn't a good enough reason not to date them if you guys are compatible. I mean maybe they will feel differently. Brace yourself for jokes about it from others for as long as you guys are together, I'm sure you'll never hear the end of it. But if you are both interested don't let it hold you back!
not dating sumone cuz of their name?.....ummmmm.....while sum of us have a hard enough time finding SUUUMONE period...haha...dude seriouslu just go for it who cares...make nicknames, problem solved
I went a few dates with someone with the same name, and I have friends who are male and female both Jesse's.
Plus think of the fun that can be had answering the other's phone and confusing the heck out of the people on the other side of the call. I gave two of my characters matching middle names cause I thought it would be cute. And like YuriCore mentioned, you can call each other cute nicknames.
Don't let having the same name put you off! You could go by nicknames or middle names to stop the confusion, but I'd just embrace it because it's cute and funny
I would totally date someone with the same name as me, just not a big enough factor to possibly miss out on my soulmate lol. YOu could also have super cute nicnames for eachother. Embrace it.
What about Rose and Rosie on YouTube? Thats sorta cute. If you can turn the name slightly into 2 different nicknames then it can be cute like Rose and Rosie.
Names aren't a big deal. Though I'd think it weird if a girl had my name, as it's not a unisex name at all, I wouldn't think anything of a guy having it.