Why am I a girl in some dreams but a guy in other ones?

For a guy who can see pretty wild things in his dreams I never dreamed myself as a girl.

Your guy dreams feels like the ones I had during a period of time. Do you have troubles, secrets that troubles you in real life currently? It could be you are trying to escape from a past mistake?

I don't know. I'm a firm believer of everyone's dreams are special to their own and only they can analyze them best... Our brains work differently after all and coded differently

 

Have you ever questioned your gender? Are you a bio male who wears, or wants to wear typical feminine style clothes? Do you want to wear feminine clothes but can't for some reason?

 

Maybe there is a link between your inability to dress feminine and dreams about being a girl?

Perhaps your subconscious is expressing a desire while you are asleep through your dreams?

So have you ever dressed feminine? Even if it was in secret? What did you think/feel during that experience?

 

OMG, when I have dreams in which I am a man, somebody is running after me too, always, they want to kill me, and hurt my family and friends, there is jungle, apocalypse, old, run-down warehouses, war... And when I have dreams in which I can remamber I am a girl... no, that's the whole rest

 

Could it be that in your dreams you are happy as a girl because you wish you could explore your femininity? And that as a guy, you are running away from your current life. Or as a guy, in your dream, you are running away from your impulses to be like a girl because you think you would not be accepted if you explored your femininity.

That's my dream interpretation, could be wrong of course. Whatever release you can get from experimenting while alone in your room can help until you figure out what you want.

 

I have very similar dreams. Dreams where I am male tend to be dreams about running or hiding from something. Dreams where I am female tend to be happy and about living life.

I think I'm running and hiding in the "male dreams " because i dont want to be male. I know that's how I feel when I'm awake and it explains why I never see something chasing me. In "female dreams" I am happy because expressing my femininity makes me happy IRL. Literally the biggest thing that I struggle with on a daily basis is feeling like nobody sees the real me. While I am definitely transitioning for myself, a big part of what I hope to get from transition is just to be seen for who I am the way everyone else is. So to me the dreams make perfect sense

 

Why is it better than how you dress regularly? Why do you feel like you are missing happiness?

 

So let's say tomorrow you woke up in a female body with a closet stuffed with pretty clothes, but everything else was the same, how would you feel?

 

Would you ever consider coming out to those around you? Would they accept you wearing feminine clothing?

 

I'm sorry they treated you that way. That wasn't okay.

Something similar happened to me when I was young and I got into my mom's makeup.

So, I think you have a good idea of what might be causing your dreams. I obviously can't say definitively, but I think that the knowledge that those around wouldn't accept you if you were to dress that way is finding its way into your dreams. Your dreams might be acting as a safe space for you.