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  1. unyakana

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    Hey guys and dolls. Im a married 30 year old woman who is currently confused. I have always classified as bisexual however, recently due to many other unfortunate issues going on in my marriage I find my self sexual aroused by women again. A LOT. Well the arousal never really went away.

    Anyways I am here trying to figure myself out.
     
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    Welcome to Ec :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello and welcome! (&&&)
     
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    Thank you!!
     
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    Welcome! A lot of people trying to figure things out :slight_smile:
    Many of us have that hot cold feeling feeling: I AM GAY... next day "well i didn't really mean it'...next day "I AM SO GAY"...."except on wednesday"

    I am not expert on marriage but I do know highly emotional issues can trigger all sorts of seemingly unrelated things.

    Anyway, search around and vent your feelings and find out who you are! Again, WELCOME!
     
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    Finding joy you completely hit the nail on the head. I have always gone back and fourth ever since I was like 13.
     
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    Figuring yourself out might be a long journey, there are no black and white answers... Hugs (*hug*)
     
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    But there's beautiful black and white women to talk to :wink: I know answers wont be quick or easy to accept.
     
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    Lol :slight_smile: I agree. And I am still having a difficult time accepting it as well. It's a journey, but it's one worth taking
     
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    It will be nice to find some new people to talk to. I've been pretty lonely especially more so now that my kiddo is at her dads for the summer. I don't want to drown myself in work because that's not good for my health.
     
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    Welcome to the forum! :slight_smile:
     
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    I have recently come out just to my husband as bisexual. I have kept it inside for years due to other things going on but it is time to finally explore and embrace who I am. I am figuring things out as I go. Its easier that way. Welcome and good luck!
     
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