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How would you define or describe your sexuality?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Invidia, Jul 21, 2016.

  1. Invidia

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    Yay! (!)
     
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    I'm label myself as gay.

    I'm romantically and sexually attracted to guys only. I haven't really talked to people about it, but I definitely notice, like looking at, and get nervous around attractive guys. But I feel like other people think "Id tap that" when they see a hot person. Most often I don't though. Not sure what that really means, if it's common or if I'm technically a gay subcategory? *Shrugs*
     
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    Yeah, I don't think that way either. ^^ I just think "Oh, he's cute", and that's about it.
     
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    I'm now sure I'm a Panromantic Demisexual (!)
     
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    Good for you. :slight_smile:
     
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    I would say between Kinsey 5 and 6 (homoflexable). I am only sexually attracted to females and definitely romantically attracted to females but males have a question mark. I mean I have never crushed on a male or felt sexual attraction towards them but there is a slight curiosity towards them.
     
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    Mostly the same for me but in reverse. Although I have had lesbian fantasies.
     
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    I'm technically homoflexible [I think?], but I prefer to label myself as a lesbian.

    I've tried dating guys that I thought I had a crush on and like me back, but a couple days into the relationship I didn't like them like that anymore. I'd rather just be their friend. Now that I look back on it I was kinda forcing myself to have male crushes back then. Now I that I know it never works out with guys I find myself rarely liking them. Girls on the other hand are different. If I have a crush on a girl, it'll last for years. I haven't had any girlfriends yet, but I really want to; It's what I look forward to.
     
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    Talking about kinsey test, I'm Kinsey 3, something between straight and bisexual. I'm only sexually attracted to guys, and romantically attracted to girls... It's annoying sometimes, cause I really like girls but I can't connect with them on the sexual way.
     
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    I'm not sure, if I'm biromantic demisexual or asexual. I'm leaning more towards asexual nowadays, but still unsure.

    I would love to be in a romantic relationship with men or women, but even the thought of having sex with either makes me uncomfortable (especially oral sex, hand jobs etc.). It just disgusts me somehow. I will probably do it someday, just to know what it's like, but I really don't have the interest to do it.

    So, I get attracted to females and males romantically and I would date either, but I don't really want to get sexual with anyone.
     
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    (*hug*)

    I'm a Kinsey 1, I think.
     
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    (*hug*) thanks Ara

    Let's say I wouldn't really matter being on a lesbian relationship, cause i don't have to much sex drive, i'm more a romantic person rather than a sexual driven one.

    I think we both are much more straight than any other thing, lol... Do the kinsey test, it's less than 20 questions.
     
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    Yeah, I did, I got a 1. ^^
     
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    It's good to see other homoflexibles here .3. I don't feel alone anymore I guess. *angel fox face*
     
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    Oh girl you're so straight :eusa_clap . I did it now again, I got a 2 ._.
     
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    Why yes, boys are my thing. .^.
     
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    I'm Pansexual.

    I'm attracted to people who look androgynous(with exceptions). It the same for guys, girls, and non binary people, which is sort of a personal reason why I choose pansexual instead of bisexual.xp Though I like them in different ways. I like guys romantically and sexually. I like girls romantically, but maybe not strictly romantic? I think I could like them sexually.It like ehhh, yeah, ehh, maybe not, no yeah. I wouldn't mind having sex if we have a strong emotional connection though, I'll probably enjoy it.

    I think of guys more sexually and girls more romantically.Tbh I see more attractive girls then guys. It's funny how I find androgynous people attractive because nobody seems to have the same taste as me irl. A friend of mine used show me pictures of guys and asked if I found any of them attractive. I said no to all of them( I was actually getting nervous about it) until I came to one guy that had long hair. She commented on how he looked like a girl, but she did agree that he looked good through. I think she made the assumption that I was a lesbian or something judging by her actions.(She ended up being wrong about me being a lesbian, but she right about me not being straight)

    Tbh in elementary I don't think I found anyone attractive,and I just forced it because I thought that was a normal thing I had to do. I could never relate to the hype about how cute boys were.That was until a new kid came to my school. He grew his hair out, and I thought he was the most beautiful person I ever seen. He did get teased for looking like a girl though. .^.

    I ended up sharing some stories, I hope that's okay. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Okay I can feel sexual attraction to both men and women. I find a larger number of men to be attractive aesthetically but I have never felt that attached to a guy. Girls I like I get bloody attached to and I love them and I want to do everything for them... etc. Until I opened up to liking girls I'm not even sure I was feeling a full range of emotions in life somehow.

    With my sexual attraction... with guys I'll find them aesthetically attractive and then maybe I'll think a little and feel arousal. Only for girls have I ever felt aroused spontaneously. This is in real life. With porn, fantasies, both work fine.

    Talking about real life... I have no experience apart from two kisses. One awkward messy, unenjoyable one with a guy, one ravenous one with a girl, on the same drunken night.

    Ultimately, I decided a while ago I was bisexual. Then I have begun to feel like I just want to be with girls so I claimed lesbian. Ultimately if you look at it on a basic level I guess am bi because I can feel attraction to men and women (I have no experience with non binary). But really I can't reconcile with any label right now.
     
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    I'm still figuring it out, but right now I feel pretty comfortable with the "homoflexible" designation. I feel pretty gay but there's some attraction to men there, I just don't know that I'm interested in acting on that ever again in more than a fantasy way (as in, in my head!).
     
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    I consider myself bisexual, but I'm more attracted to girls rather than guys. Although I have never been in a relationship before so I don't really know which I would like better. I guess it all depends on the person who I'm with.