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Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Alexrocks1253, Jul 18, 2016.

  1. Alexrocks1253

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    Does size matter to any gender, because I think that I might be a bit too small...:eek:
     
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    Penis size?

    As a lesbian I'm not one to give much advice about it from my perspective, but from experience talking to straight women and gay men (or bisexuals) they care less than you think. There will always be shallow people out there, but they are easily forgotten.

    It also depends on your size. 5 inches is the average and the majority of most men. What size looks like in porn is not accurate to reality at all.
     
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    I'll tell you from a mtf perspective, size matters only in how effectively you can hide it.

    From a man's perspective, size does matter, but remember 5 inches erect is average and unless you're with someone that finds that important then maybe find someone else. I, myself, being given an above average penis has been problematic in my love making.

    Moreover, having a good personality, strong character, and confidence will get you much more satisfaction and bring you someone who will like you for that and not the size of your penis.

    Every homosapian male has probably asked themselves the same question at some point. Become an expert at using what you have

    Good luck.
     
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    I'm a VERY physical person in terms of how I judge the person. If you read any of my posts about physical appearance, that's obvious. However, even I don't think that, if I was interested in you because of your personality, would be too upset if your penis was small. XD Then again, I don't like strictly penises, so I don't know if any gay guys on here feel differently than me. Still, I think that most people in this world won't dump you or avoid having sex with you due to this one thing. :wink: After all, it's all about the motion of the ocean and not how big the ship is, rightttt???
     
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    :roflmao:Yeah.
     
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    If anyone you're in a relationship with cares enough about penis size that it starts to negatively affect the relationship or even just your personal feelings, they aren't right for you :thumbsup:
     
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    Lemme paraphrase Edwin's line from Fast and Furious 1: "It don't matter what car you drive. It matters how you drive it".
    So, no, size doesn't matter. It matters how you use what you've got.
     
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    As a bisexual (probably) girl, I can tell you that size doesn't really matter, and that if the person really likes you, they won't care about your size.
     
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    What matters is the person the penis is attached to. Also how you use it. I'd rather have fun with 4 inches than just get ploughed with 6 inches and have diarrhoea for two days lol...
     
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    If you are 15, your body is still changing. Boys mature at different rates, so your penis may still grow quite a bit (not guaranteeing anything here but just keep that in mind ...)

    Penis size does matter ... to some people. And it usually matters more if it's too big rather than too small. For many men (and some women) trying to accommodate a large penis will feel like they are being ripped in half and it is not pleasurable sex for them, but everyone is different. Overly large (8" and longer) penises can actually tear the colon wall during anal sex and cause very dangerous internal bleeding.

    Yes, there are "size queens" or gay men who are only attracted to men with large penises. Keep in mind that the average length is around 5 1/2 inches, and 90% of all men are between 5 and 7.

    Men and boys are obsessed with the size of their penises (too small? too big?) but what it is attached to it is far more important. I remember around 8 years ago I had sex with someone with a smaller than average (4 inch) penis. He got me so excited that I ejaculated as he was about to penetrate me. That has never happened to me again.

    Gay men do have one huge (pun intended) advantage over straight men. If their penises are too far outside the average 5-7 inch range they can just bottom.

    My advice is to relax and realize that almost all boys worry about the size and appearance of their penises. It's just something you go through and when you get older you'll worry about it less and less.
     
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    Your 15 and it doesn't stop growing for years

    ---------- Post added 24th Jul 2016 at 12:58 AM ----------

    Don't worry about it
     
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    I know I don't mind either way, really. Even in terms of the purely physical aspect, there are many things I care more about than size.
     
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    It matters to some people more than others, but speaking from my perspective I don't really care. In fact, if someone was very...er, large, then it would be more of an issue than if the person was below average.
     
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    Alright. Thanks for the help.