what was your first same-sex sexual experience like?

I see a few kiss stories. I can do that. I'm still a little virgin though.

The kiss. Me, crazy drunk on the dance floor at a house party. This guy came to dance with me and we ended up kissing and it was awful so we parted. Then from across the room I saw this blonde girl and she saw me. We converged and danced closer and closer unt we ended up kissing. She asked me if I liked girls. I said yes and tried to kiss her neck through her hair which was dumb but I was drunk. And then we just launched in to full on making aout and rampaging through the house trying to get upstairs to, you know, finish this story with an actual sexual encounter to talk about. But then my friend grabbed me from behind and this I found myself in this intervention situation about how I was too drunk. Which was true.

 

In a word: Lame

 

My first experience with a guy was in a shady barrio of a notorious Latin American city with a guy of my age who I had randomly met a week before. I was 26 and I had met him through a travel app similar to AirBnB. I was staying at his house as his guest. He was super nice guy and was incredibly friendly to me but I assumed this is a Latin thing. He insisted sleeping in the same bed with a lame excuse even though there was a free bedroom in the house. I didn't think much of that since I regularly sleep in the same bed with my friends so I assumed he was just being hyper social.

Things went gradually more and more intimate. From obvious gay jokes to tickling and wrestling until the second last night he put his arm around my shoulder in bed. Still I took this just as a friendly gesture and reciprocated. He then proceeded to fondle my ass which I didn't expect at all. The only thing I was able to say was to ask what is he doing. His response was "Isn't it pretty obvious?" And yeah, with hindsight it was pretty damn obvious.

I was somewhat uncomfortable about this turn of events so I turned him down. Yet I could not sleep as my heart was racing. Someone was taking sexual interest in me which was something I had never experienced before. Better still that someone was also really handsome and nice. He approached me again by hugging me so I decided that F it, I live only once and that I should regret things I have done rather than things I hadn't done. So we ended up cuddling and kissing naked. He wanted to go further by basically offering that I could do whatever I want or he could do me whatever I wanted but I wasn't really on-board with that. In the end I gave him a handjob but I was quite happy with the closeness.

It was my first time to do anything with a guy and he said the same about him although I don't really believe that. In the end that doesn't really matter although it would make a nicer story if they ever made a movie out of my life. I had really strong feelings for him for almost a year. We still occasionally exchange greetings on FB but I deliberately keep my distance to him in order not to evoke my feelings for him again.

 

So my first sexual experience was when i was around 11, every day during the summer holidays me and all my school buddies would meet and hag out at a local children's like fun centre, i had been going for 2 years previous and this was my third year, Im not going to say they guys name but lets just call him sam, so at this facility they had a fenced off forest where we could go and play, one day me and this guy are running through the woods and i say im going to get some water and sam says "wait" and i say what and he comes over and says i want to touch you and im like no and anyway things lead up to us both pulling our trousers and boxers down and he plays with my penis and i play with his.
Now bearing the age we were we thought this was weird but also normal, anyway he thought of a idea and i said what and sams reply was laydown, so i do as he says and he went to grab a glove from the art area of the building and ran back to me, i said why do you have that and sam says hold it still so i hold my penis still and he puts the finger part of the glove over my penis and he says close your eyes so i do and in an instant he's mouth goes over the glove and he is giving me oral, after a while we swap and i do it to him.

Since then i have felt ashamed and disgusted about what i did but i guess i'm in denial.

My second experience involves my old friend who recently came out, so lets call him alex, so one day when i was 14 i go to alex's house and im there for a while, eventually his mum goes out shopping and leaves us alone for a hour or two, so we play some playstation and chat, then me and alex go to his room, we chat there for a bit and watch tv then alex pull out is tablet and puts straight porn on and says look at this isnt it disgusting and i reply with no its ok, so we watch it a little then more tv, this time he changes the porn on his tablet to gay bareback porn and he shows me and says this is nice, not that other crap and i say its ok, just then he gets his hand and starts touching himself and masterbation over his shorts, he then looks at me and says are you hard and i obviously reply with no when i am but this is to stop awkwardness, he sees the bulge in my trousers and he moves his hand over and starts rubbing me over my shorts and im like this is weird and alex says its ok, so i really am enjoying this but its a bit creepy, so i say i have to leave, but now when i think back to it i wish i had stayed and experienced gay sex with him, he is also quite hot.

But now when ever i see a hot guy i cant help but imagine going down on him.

im not sure if im gay or bi or straight, some days i love guys and someday i cant describe how disgusted i am with myself. so yeah thats my story.

 

what led up to it? we were hanging out at her parents' house and just fooling around in her bedroom.
what were you thinking at the time? Yay
what were you thinking afterwards? I wish I could've had an orgasm!
did it confirm or put doubts on your sexuality? Not really
and...if you went the full way then how did you know what to do?!
other thoughts/feelings? she left me for a man, admitting she was more into them. No wonder it didn't really work.

 

A. I'm too young
B. I'm too scared about sex
C. I'll probably remain a virgin until my 30s
D. I sort of want my first time to be special

 

Actually not that enjoyable. I don't think I was ready for it.

 

Ambiguous.

 

Well, it was in April in this year. My boyfriend and I was cuddling in the hotel room, then I reached out and kissed him. We didn't go all the way, just some attempt on blowjob and handjob and at that time I thought: "why didn't he just cum already?? I'm tired!" then we quit trying and sat back and laughed about it. Even though neither of us managed to achieve orgasm, it was still an enjoyable and fun experience :lol:

 

Sounds like it!

 

Well, I was drunk and with my brother's best friend. She was someone I had always been particularly attracted to and had a small crush on at one point, but at the time I no longer had a crush on her just very attracted to her. She knew that I had a crush on her and we were so drunk she mentioned it. We were both very....interesting at the time...haha but I'm sure you know what I really mean. I don't really remember all the details because we were both very drunk, but I remember doing a lot of touching, watching lesbian porn...things happened that made me feel very awkward with her afterwards, but we both agreed not to mention it again. I liked it though. It was nice. As for knowing what to do, it just kind of happened and I imitated porn...Overall of what I do remember I enjoyed it. I laugh about it now.

 

It was good overall. I was bumbling and awkward 24 year old virgin, but I was with someone patient so it was a good experience.

 

I think everybody's first time is awkward.

 

I haven't had much in terms of same-sex encounters...really the only instance was, I went to a bar where most underage college kids used to go, there was this really drunk dance major, she started grinding on me - while I just kind of stood there because I am the most awkward turtle in existence - but oh my god I was just like, this is right this is right this is right. And then we were dancing and we were so close to kissing, and I wanted it to happen...and then she leaned in and whispered in my ear, "I've had a boyfriend for five years." That ended that. But I am def holding out hope for a better experience in the future, I just have trouble meeting women who are into women. Of course, I haven't had much better experiences with men thus far either :icon_redf:lol:

 

I was working as a bartender for this private party that was given by these big wig gay guys and this really hot guy approached me and kept trying to maintain a conversation with me throughout the night. After awhile, he kept asking me if I would go out on a dinner date with him later that week. After his persistence, I finally gave in. Actually, I wanted to give in when he first asked me but I decided to play hard to get which I found out intrigued him to pursue me even more. Anyway, after being wined and dined by this guy for a few weeks, things led to more sexual advances between us. Since he was much older than I was at the time (Me...20, Him ...36), he taught me a lot about man to man sex. In other words, He was very sexy and the sex was amazing!!!!...he was a Sexual Freak!!!!....and since I was a highly sexual being, I gotten to be very creative sexually as well which took our hot sex to another level. Now...are you ready for the shocker?????...After we became a committed couple, this guy revealed to me that he was a Catholic priest and he was very well known in the state and within the local media. There were times when I found it odd that I would sit there in church on Sunday mornings listening to him giving his weekly sermon and yet, I would get a boner knowing that we were going to have hot sex later on that evening after all of his Sunday duties were done.

 

A tender kiss which took me by surprise followed by a surge of uncontrollable feelings.

 

Awesome! So awesome we did 4 times throughout the night and into the morning. Netflix and chill? Check. Wakeup sex? Check. Anal? Check. Shower sex? Check. Goodbye sex? Check.

 

I've hardly had experience, lol. But I guess this counts?

This was before I knew I was gay. My body was just starting to change, I was about 9 or 10. Me and other girls were changing in the locker room after swimming, and we had to get fully naked. Many of the girls were really young and underdeveloped, and I was nervous because I looked different. But a friend of mine, around the same age, was just as mature as me. It was a long time ago, I don't nessecarily remember how it felt, but, what I do remember is that I couldn't stop looking. Very easy on the eyes. But I forced myself not to, because staring was rude. Looking back at this, I think it could've been the first time I was aroused by a girl. But nothing actually happened between us. Again, we were 9-10.

 

Thoroughly clumsy but rather gentle and sweet. It was only two years ago but by god have I got far better technique and confidence now.

 

Am I the only virgin here? .-.