So I was pretty sure I was a lesbian. Then this DUDE in my grade comes along and I think he's attractive. However, I cannot see myself with him. Does that make me bi?
No, straight girls compliment each other all of the time yet their sexuality never comes into question. Just because you might think a guy is cute does not make you any less of a lesbian..
No, you can tell when someone is aesthetically pleasing. Doesn't mean you are not still gay. There are straight men that can tell when another man is attractive and there are straight women that can tell when another female is attractive. There is a difference between knowing someone is attractive verse sexual attraction.
Yes I would agree with the others. If you start wanting to kiss or have sex with that guy then at that time I would consider you bi-sexual.
Yup. Straight women think that way of women all the time. As long as there's no sexual component, you are fine.
No, you can find someone attractive without feeling anything sexual or romantic linked to it. Gay, straight, whatever. Anyone with a working set of eyeballs can look at a person and find them 'cute.' Doesn't make you any less gay (or straight). Don't worry about it.
Yep, the same way a non-collector can appreciate a rare painting. Now, if you were getting all giggly around him, had the guy on your mind 24/7, and wanted to go further...
