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Would you date yourself... Past or Present?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Phaidra, Jun 19, 2016.

  1. Skaros

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    My past self? No. I was a mess, socially and maybe even physically to a point.

    My present self? Sure, why not. We'd both enjoy anime and cosplaying, and I don't think I'm that ugly. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Nope, I'm a mess.
     
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    No. Dating myself would be awful because we would never come to decisions and no one would ever make a move. Also I don't find myself attractive. I like someone that is the opposite of me.
     
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    Past? No. I was horrible and mean and dangerous to know because I was so unhappy. Now? Oh I don't know. I'm a lot happier and genuinely nice (I hope) now, but I'm still very selfish.
     
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    I'd date myself (now), sure. I know everything I like and don't, no surprises. It's like masturbating only sometimes I buy myself dinner.
     
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    Hmmm....sex with myself? Well I already do that so sure why not. :slight_smile: Although, the past me wouldn't have time for me. But the present me would be a blast. We would have a lot in common, finally somebody would get my jokes, and I wouldn't get annoyed at my own intense conversations all the time. And for once I would have a partner with the same libido.... :slight_smile:
     
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    my teenage self was totally a "type" that im into now, haha
     
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    yes i would date myself
    past: no
    present: yes, i want to marry myself
     
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    :roflmao:

    Hey, I resemble that remark...
     
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    I'd totally date my past self but right now I'm not in the best mental state to date anyone, let alone myself. Dealing with someone whose dysphoria and mental health disorders are this strong while dealing with my own issues would just turn me into a mess.
     
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    No, I am so stubborn and two stubborn people in a relationship don't work out too well. It could be possible but there would be a lot of stupid fights.
     
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    Hell no! Don't get me wrong, I love myself but one of me is already too much.:lol: I'm also not physically attracted to myself.

    Someone with similar personality and interests is fine, just not me.
     
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    No, the looks are there but the personality isn't. I'm too shy, If i where to date myself we would just site there awkwardly in silence most of the time. I need someone outgoing to counteract my shyness.
     
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    I don't think I could date my past self. That one couldn't control her baggage, so I highly doubt I'd be able to.

    My present self...I'll have to think about it. On an intellectual level, I've been attracted to women who were not only smart, but held some of my core ideals. On the other hand, I've physically become more masculine over the years, and usually I date women on the slightly more feminine side.

    Even now, I guess it's a mixed bag. But I guess I'd just go for it. Yeah, sure, I'll date present me.
     
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    Past-- probably not. I was way too emotional/ traumatised/ unbalanced

    Present-- Yeh, I think I've grown a lot as a person. Although I am questioning whether i'm bi or gay, I know that I am a very loving, kind and beautful person. When I was younger, I had too much pain from childhood wounds... and I was overly sexual with everything and everyone (also connected to the childhood traumas) but now I have worked through that.

    I now feel I am WORTHY of something good... of someone loving.
     
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    I wouldn't date my past self because I was much less confident and even more awkward than I am now. I would definitely date my present self.
     
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    I would date neither because I wouldn't be able to put up with someone like me haha
     
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    I would rather date my present self. I'm messy but I can handle it now :icon_cool