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How old were you when you had your first same-sex kiss

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SillyGoose, May 13, 2016.

  1. Rowe

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    Never kissed anyone on the lips, and only one person (a girl) on the cheek.
     
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    I'd say 15 was the first time I had a real 'gay kiss'.

    The best first kiss I ever had was with my current partner.
     
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    hahahHAHAHha never and i feel bad
     
  4. 17 - It was magical. :love:
     
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    It was my sophomore year in college. I had always kind of knew I wasn't straight but I figured I was bi and, well, it was a long time ago and if I was bi it just seemed easier to date women, which I did with gusto. It's kind of funny in retrospect but I was quite the ladies man--I've actually slept with more women than a lot of straight guys I know.

    Well, anyway. My roommate had this friend who would visit from Princeton and it was like he was me but at Princeton. We were both religious studies majors, we both did parliamentary debate and he was beautiful. He was also gay and out back when it seemed like no one was out. I was pretty sure he had my number but he was always respectful and never brought it up as we became quite good friends. Well one night we went to a party together. I didn't drink so when he got pretty drunk it was my responsibility to make sure he got back to the dorm safely. We stumbled along through the campus me supporting him as we staggered and talked and laughed.

    When we finally got back to the dorm we were there in the lobby and he went in for a drunken kiss and I went to turn away, which was of course the responsible thing to do. And then I just... didn't, instead I turned into it and went with it. And it was like lightning through my soul. So much so that my legs actually gave out, and of course he wasn't able to support himself in that state, so we fell to the ground, a huge tangle of legs and arms.

    And I laid there for a moment and ran over all of it in my head. It wasn't at all like it was with women. I had mistaken what I had with women for something else. This wasn't a difference of degree but of kind. By the time I was able to get to my feet I knew I was gay.

    Not bad for a kiss from a sloppy drunk guy...:lol:
     
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    Young actually, 8 or 9. Was never one to back out of a dare xD. Though not sure if that would actually count sooooo pretty much never? Still waiting for that first kiss I suppose.
     
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    12. 7 minute makeout session on a dare. Vividly disgusting.
     
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    12 with my first gf
     
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    Either 13 or 14 depending on what I want to count. I mean one of them was drunken and not technically very good and the other was for like one second but both were great. I felt literal sparks. Like I felt tingly. I had really liked the person (it was the same person both times).
     
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    I only dated guys since I was gay my whole life but I was 18 when I dated a guy named Stephen and he was 16 that time. I never knew I was gay until I was 18. I researched online and found out I was gay. Before I never understood my feelings when I saw certain boys. I just got excited but never knew why.
     
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    I think I was 8.
     
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    21, also happened to be my first kiss...
     
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    14 with my best friend, who I was sort of dating at the time.
     
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    I loved reading this response. It's amazing how such a simple action can have such a massively important impact on your life but it's so true. Thanks for sharing this in detail, it brought me some good memories.
     
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    Over the summer
     
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    I have never been kissed.
     
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    20 years old (last september). It was ok, I guess. The guy was hot, but I guess I was overwhelmed since it would also be my first sexual experience (kissing, sex etc...).
     
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    18 and not yet! Can't wait though lol
     
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    I've never kissed anyone in real life...do my dreams (and daydreams) count?