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Do You Find Feminine Guys Attractive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Plattyrex, May 9, 2016.

  1. Lacybi

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    For personality I don't have a preference but lookswise I prefer feminine guys over masculine guys any day.
     
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    If they look feminine, I don't find them attractive. That's not to say I think they're ugly, they're just not what I'd want in a partner. If a man looks masculine and behaves effeminately, I'm fine with that.
     
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    I'm the exact opposite, in that I don't mind a dominant personality, but prefer feminine (or androgynous) looks in men >_>
     
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    No, I'm not attracted to exaggerately feminine men. I do like the androgynous types though.
     
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    I'm probably somewhere in the middle. I tend to be drawn to more masculine guys though.
     
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    I consider myself masculine and have only ever been attracted to masculine guys. I just like men that look like natural men, washed and dried but not preened and plucked.
    If a guy looks boyish then some people would maybe class that as feminine looking but in my opinion, so long as that's the natural scrubbed up look, then I would probably still find it attractive.
     
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    I may say yes, but it's not the rule.
     
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    I think both are attractive. But I find that most feminine guys that I've been near I've ended up having a crush on.
     
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    Both are attractive, but I prefer more masculine men.
     
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    I can't explain the reasons but I find myself drawn to feminine guys, both appearance and behaviors.

    It's curiosity as well as attraction I guess.
     
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    sure! but i'm into anyone really ' v '
     
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    I find the idea of "masculine" and "feminine" to be quite abstract. But if we're going by stereotypes, I'd say that I mostly like men in between. I also don't mind if they lean towards the masculine side or the feminine side. However, I'm not too big on ultra-masculine or ultra-feminine men. I guess I just like a nice balance.
     
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    As someone who is very androgynous, I find people who are both very feminine and very masculine to be attractive, and I don't exclude either when talking to potential partners.
     
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    I consider myself a butch queen homosexual male, so that's feminine.

    I'm very rude in public, I have a ghetto ratchet speaking voice, I hate the gym culture. I'm skinny. Butch queen.

    Do I find fems attractive, yes I do.

    But you can stop dreaming for that masculine hulking night in shining armor. He isn't going to come. The type of guys who like fems guys are nowhere near that type of stature.
     
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    I don't care.
     
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    YES OHMYGOD

    Like, just feminine appearance guys, and then guys that like skirts and makeup and flowers and glitter, and aren't afraid to wear a dress and ....

    Um yeah.

    Androgyny is suuuper cute tooo
     
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    There was one guy named Bryan that I really liked since he had feminine personality but most guys I was with were not that feminine. Adam was sorta feminine since he liked to wear girl clothing once in a while but I didn't like it so he stopped doing it. I guess if they look like guys that's what matters but once they start to look like girls it turns me off. They can have feminine personality that's fine but not looks. Since I' am gay I like how boys are and how they sound and look, feel etc. The guy named Kent I am with is like a normal guy I think meaning I don't think he has any feminine personality and dresses like normal guy too so that's what I like the most. If I liked guys to look like girls then I would be straight lol.
     
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    I would consider myself definitely more on the feminine side and I find all types attractive! I used to think I was more attracted to the masculine types, but I'm slowly realizing that I just like a very specific personality type haha
     
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    Prefer masculine guys but not impossible to date an effeminate one. I'm a genderbender and guys that went/go out the norm intrigue me when there still is expectations of us to be super masculine. I understand not all of us(me especially) are gonna fit with being categorized as feminine or masculine. Whatever makes you happy just love yourself. If you wanna be Little Richard, Mr. T, or in a grey area its up to you. Hope others can accept that and love us regardless.

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    But also I like to think I'm an avid supporter of "no bottom shaming" lol. Just because a guy is a reflection of Lady Gaga doesn't automatically mean he's a bottom. I bet there are guys out there effeminate who prefer to top if they even like to bottom in the first place. Then there's guys prettier than the girls they mess with who are straighter than an arrow. Everyone is different hence so many preferences I just wish femininity wasn't seen as a just submissive and a bad thing for guys.
     
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    Most of my crushes are on feminine guys, so yes :lol: