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Hat confidence?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by ConnectedToWall, May 8, 2016.

  1. ConnectedToWall

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    So last summer I got this snapback from Zumiez with an elephant on it, and I've wanted to wear it to school but haven't really got the guts. I like it a lot, I'm just not sure it really fits me. Every time I see it I think it would look so much better on Ruby Rose. She totally rocks hats like a boss. I feel like if I was a guy, I could totally wear this hat and no one would give me a second glance, but I'm worried if I wear it to school i'll get unwanted attention. I literally wear the plainest clothes most of the time because I don't want to be noticed. I don't want to feel like I wasted my money though cause it wasn't cheap and I like the hat so I'm like...what do I do?
    I wish I had hat confidence.
     
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    If you like the hat Rock the hat. Screw what others think. Besides, a female in a hat isn't uncommon anymore
     
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    Anyone can rock a hat
     
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    If you like it, wear it. I wear my buff [​IMG] (this Thing)
    Out all the time because I like it, I might get a little self conscious but who cares I like it so screw 'em
     
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    Just wear the hat!

    Maybe wear it around the house a bit to feel more comfortable wearing it? I've been quite a few girls running around campus wearing Bass Pro hats, so I'm sure it'll be no big deal :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks for the advice guys! I think I'm gonna wear it soon. I still think it would look better on Ruby Rose than me but, I mean Ruby Rose is Ruby Rose so everything probably looks better on her.
     
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    Whell some pepole will give you less atention and some will give you more even plain clothinv attracts atention cuz simplicity is sexy so you got that hat girl cuz you know how to start trends just dont think to hard on it you can change your allowed a hat is a good start to becoming a fashinicta just make sure it matches somthing your wearing like what you were wareing the day you bought it mabey fun fun clothing is you will alwayse be found by pepole who have the same fashion SenCe.
     
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    I find that when I don't feel comfortable wearing something at college where everyone knows me and will judge me for it, I first wear it out in public like to town, etc. It makes me feel a lot more confident about then wearing it to school and I don't care what anyone thinks because no one knows me. That might take away some of the worry for you when you do end up wearing it to school?
     
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    That's a good idea, I think I'm gonna try that.