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what attracts you to guys?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by gryf, May 2, 2016.

  1. Teach1

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    I also like a cute little belly.
     
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    taller than me, cute face, dark hair, some body or facial hair if it looks good on him, a great personality that suits mine and muscles!

    tattoos and piercings are always a plus for me lol :slight_smile:.
     
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    Exactly This! And nice eyes too! And haven similiar life goals/interests wouldn't hurt :3 ironic since I only look half that( I'm on the skinny side)
     
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    Facial hair
    Light body hair
    Shaved in certain places
    Narrow, compact physique, small round ass, 5'8" or less, about 160 lbs.
    Soft voice with masculine tones
    Tasteful tattoos
    Likes to make out; expressive kisser
    Makes noise and sounds when aroused
    Athletic, in good shape
    Warm and friendly, caring

    There is a certain type of man that I can see, and go completely obsessive over. It's a read-only-memory in the brain, that launches nuclear missiles.

    And one more thing: Thank God that gay males, unlike some straight women, don't mind a bit being viewed as "sex objects." :icon_bigg
     
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    Everything but I love "twunks". Give me a guy that has noticeable muscles, blue eyes, a great smile, funny, adventurous.. And I'll marry him!
     
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    I like my men manly and my women feminine; I'm gay, so scratch the women part.

    I am very protective around the people I love and I think their is a certain allure to being in a relationship around someone one can relax a bit and pass on the protection responsibilities for a bit. I don't always want to be pushing the cart at Costco :lol:.

    As for what I physically like in a guy? Their masculine face, their DNA that tells their body to distributes fat not like women in their hips but in their stomach area, facial hair, musky scent, genitalia (as someone who took biology in college, I can honestly say the female reproductive system is something I find more of a peculiarity).
     
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    Oh, and I like nice eyes especially if they're blue and big butts :3
     
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    :slight_smile: I really like seeing the breadth of preference
     
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    I haven't dated a guy in two years and I don't know if I ever will again, but I like nice hair and a chill personality. Guys with big hearts are awesome too.
     
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    Teeth especially with braces. braces are so so sexy. I am not picky with hair honestly I like all colors and all legnths. Jocks are cute. I am only attracted to white and jewish guys.(!)

    ---------- Post added 2nd May 2016 at 07:52 PM ----------

    Brown hair and blue eyes are death too!
     
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    Oh God yes. This kind of question and honest answers shows that every one of us is attractive to somebody. Twenty-five years ago, I had no idea this could be true. Even if Wall Street has dire schemes to exploit our use of the internet, the one good thing it has given me is proof that there is someone for everyone.
     
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    very sweet and adorable guys who are meme trash at the same time
     
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    The mind has been my attraction catch always. Young or older. I'll be honest that the twink thing catches me because I used to be one. Now I don't care really. Smooth, hairy with a beard, etc I don't care if the mind connects!
     
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    Aesthetically I like guys who are a bit husky or I guess of medium build at least. Kind of barrel chested, with natural muscle, and being chubby is cute too. Guys with boyish faces are nice, especially if they have cheek dimples. I also appear to be a sucker for dark hair and lighter eyes. Not a huge fan of facial hair but when I see a guy with a big, fluffy, well trimmed beard I'm just awe struck!

    Personality wise I like sensitive guys, not necessarily effeminate but just unafraid to emote how they feel. I like good boys, sweet disposition, kind, maybe a little gentleman-like. A great sense of humor is also a must.
     
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    Personality wise I really like a guy that's a goof ball but can also be down to earth when it's needed. Romance is kind of a requirement too. It's pretty hard to snuggle with an emotionless statue.

    As for physical appearance I love tall, dark, and handsome guys. A.k.a. Oscar Isaac
     
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    XD I thought I was the only one who likes that
     
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    So did I!
     
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    Initially, probably nice hair (including facial hair!), expression (more smiling or relaxed than angry/frowning). Dressed nicely so far as everything is clean and not clashing. I usually like someone close to my height or just a bit taller; I'm short, and don't find it very fun to be reminded of that every time I'm near someone really tall.

    I'll pay attention if he has colorful hair, tattoos, piercings, but not a big deal if he doesn't.

    Hands are something I focus on. I can't say there's anything specific but some guys just have really nice, masculine hands. And I can always appreciate a little bit of muscle/definition on the upper body :thumbsup:
     
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    Almost the same :grin: In addition to that, men with long hair is really sexy!

    But above all those physical traits, I really admire geeky and dudes and men that favors more on romance. I also value the way of thinking of that guy. I like men that thinks deep and open up out of this world conversations.
     
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    So I'm bisexual ish so I'd say good sense of humour, kindness, fit. And masculinity, really.