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If a gay guy tried sex with a woman would vaginal sex feel good?

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  1. juvenile

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    If a gay guy had sex with a woman would vaginal sex feel good, and have the potential to get him off?
     
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    I'm gay, but was in a hetero relationship before I came to terms with my sexuality. In the beginning hetero sex was cool, because it was sex...and I'd always been curious. After awhile though, it just wasn't that great.

    So yeah, I think a gay guy can definitely enjoy a hetero encounter, but it definitely isn't the same lust/raw passion that you'd experience with someone who your sexually attracted to within your orientation. Just my experience brah...
     
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    So why did you enjoy hetero sex at first if you're not attracted to women?
     
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    Sex outside of your orientation can feel ok. The physical act is still taking place but you'll find the enjoyment of sex really has a lot to do with the mental aspect. That's how someone can get lost in a lustfull passionate moment. That type of excitement is not going to happen outside of your orientation. So if you're gay youre only going to experience mind blowing sex with a same sex partner.
     
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    The physical stimulation can, for some guys, be great. But there's no emotion in it. This is terrible but I know several guys who would only havesex with the girl facedown... So they could fantasize about guys
     
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    You're also assuming that only women have the capacity to offer a gay man vaginal sex...

    Also, what's with this weird obsession with 'would gay men bed a lady if X happened?' questions?
     
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    Speaking for myself as bi either way feels amazing. A friend of mine (not a partner) who is gay had his first time with a female and enjoyed to orgasm. After realized that it wasn't a bad thing but was gay.
     
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    For me, it was good, but not great. Actually nasty always as good as masturbation

    I realise I just wanted guys and as for oral, I want into it.
     
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    Yes it would feel good, your penis is being stimulated and there are nerve endings that hit the pleasure centers of the brain.

    Would it feel as good and as emotionally satisfying as with a guy? Probably not. Plus you probably wouldn't be *that* into it. But does it feel good to your dong? Yes.
     
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    So why so you think vaginal sex would feel good on your dong? How does it feel like physically?
     
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    Go try it for yourself or Google how it feels. Billions of men do it all the time so it can't feel *that* bad.
     
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    I mean... the stimulation feels good in a purely physical sense, because it's stimulation. But a huge part of sex is mental arousal, being cerebrally attracted to the person you are being intimate with. Without that component, sex is a flop.
     
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    So now imagine what it is like for a lesbian having sex with a man. With women the emotional component is all import. Lesbian sex is truly an emotional experience where you are lost in a slow moving heated sensual passionate moment until the orgasm is pulled from you. It is unlike anything straight sex could provide. So yeah I don't think a lesbian is going to be getting off while haveing sex with a man. But she is going to fake it at some point to get him to stop. Just saying.
     
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    I am kind curious about what it would feel like in a vagina.I guess it must be feeling good but just the idea of it kinda makes me feel a bit disgusted for some reason.