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i'm gay but is it normal to find some girls cute/adorable?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by zachstin17, Apr 27, 2016.

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  1. zachstin17

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    So recently I have noticed that I don't necessarily find some girls attractive but I do however look just to look. If I saw a girl that I thought was cute I look. This mainly happens to short haired girls. I don't have any sexual attraction or desire. I just think there cute like looking at a cute puppy or kitten. For some reason this happens mainly with lesbian style girls with short hair. For example this picture of this girl I found on google. If i'm not aloud to do this please remove the link??. http://blogg.veckorevyn.com/clarasl.../2012/08/53f884087318a9efcde2657b87ed5120.jpg
     
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    That's normal! As long as you're not sexually attracted to them then yes I mean I've thought some girls were really cute. Would I want to date them? Nope! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Well being gay doesn't mean that you can't notice or find the opposite sex attractive at times. A beautiful person is a beautiful person. I'd never be with a woman in a million years, but I can still appreciate a cute female if I happen to see one, although it is just fleeting. In short, being gay just means you're attracted to the same sex in a romantic and sexual way.
     
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    Of course, just how you can notice kittens are cute. There's no doubt male and female are different, and certain traits are more pronounced in one or the other, generally. I've also noticed my attention towards "baby dykes" and such is greater than with your average, stereotypical femme.
     
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    It's nothing really unusual. Sometimes when I see a (female) model or celebrity I'll think, "She is really beautiful", but it's more like how I would feel towards a piece of art than how I would feel towards a guy I find attractive. I can still find girls attractive, without being attracted to them, if you get me.
    Hope this helps!
     
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    its toatlly normal. I have the same thing. And so what if you feel attracted to a girl? its just you being you.
     
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    Normal is overrated!
     
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    A lot of gay guys find girls cute. Look at the fashion industry!
     
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    Ok thanks guys:slight_smile:
     
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    Its perfectly normal for someone who is gay to find someone of the opposite gender cute. It is simply recognizing that someone is good looking, but you not wanting to become intimate with them.
     
    #10 Renegades, Apr 29, 2016
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