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Finally found the condifence to dress in all-girl clothes to school

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by irissakata, Apr 21, 2016.

  1. irissakata

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    Heey Everybody!

    Recently i have been trying to get more courage to prepare for my transition by dressing a bit more feminine.

    Ever since i started going to this school i already kept getting called things for wearing skinny jeans, having longer hair, often wearing nail polish etc.. But before i used to wear boy skinny jeans with boy shirts, and lately i have been dressing in girl's skinny jeans everyday (and no one noticed or made any different comment's). But today i decided alright i'm also gonna wear a girl shirt (in this case a tanktop with a band logo on it), over that i wore a flanel (with the button's opened up so you could see the shirt). Currently i'm also considering dyeing my hair a different color instead of only black, maybe i'll add some purple to it ^^

    But enough over what i wore haha, i know to some people this all seems like a piece of cake, but for me someone who already has pretty severe anxiety this is a huge step, and it certainly gave me a huge confidence boost!

    I'm sorry to bore you all with this post, but i needed somewhere to tell this ^_^

    PS. also i have ordered panties already so i can start tucking soon (the method in which you use 2 panties), and i know i haven't started my transition yet, as i soon will start talking with a gender therapist, as i have approval of my doctor and psychologist, i think these are good preparations :grin:
     
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    Congrats! That's a huge step!!!! I bet you totally rocked it!
     
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    That's really brave of you, congrats!
     
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    Confidence is what makes you beautiful. Be yourself, wear whatever the hell you want to wear! I'm sure you look great.

    Purple sounds awesome, you may also try turquoise or red, they go good with black, especially red.

    I don't know you but still damn proud of you :kiss:
     
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    good for you congrats
     
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    Congrats! ^.^
     
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    Thank you everyone for all of your very sweet comment's :icon_redf
    I very much appreciate it and i'm very grateful for it ^_^
     
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    If anyone gives you crap for it then I will personally hunt them down and challenge them to a one on one fight to the death :starwars:

    Well done! (*hug*)
     
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    Nawww, thank you very much for that very very sweet comment, i'm literally blusing right now and have a huge smile on my face because of the happiness the people here on this forum bring me :icon_redf:icon_bigg(*hug*)