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Questioning for the first time

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Confused1995, Apr 16, 2016.

  1. Confused1995

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    Hi, everyone!
    I just found this site from google as I was looking for a place to ask questions. I am 20 years old and I've always thought I was straight. As of recent, I have been questioning my sexuality and I'm not sure why. I'm confused and I don't really have anyone who I could talk to about this.
    This might seem really cliche but there's this show I watch a lot called the Fosters and I absolutely love the fact that TV is showing two moms raising a family, because it's real life. For some reason, the more I watch it, the more I question if I really am straight. I'm not sexually active so I don't feel like this is about sex.
    I'm just really confused :icon_sad:
     
  2. Yosia

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    One of the best things to do is to just think to yourself "who do i see myself dating/marrying? Boy or girl?

    Tbh its a very hard thing to understand, and personally i'd just recommend taking life as it comes. I understand that not everyone can live like this but honestly if you're a type of person to just be able to take things as they come, then its a very good way of coping and not worrying