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Other bisexuals who are monogamous?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Aspiegirl, Apr 9, 2016.

  1. Aspiegirl

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    People always tell me that bisexuals can't be monogamous??? :tears:
     
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    People are ignorant. Go over to the Later in Life forum and look at the thread about how to have better bi visibility when in a monogamous relationship with a member of the opposite sex.
     
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    I'm monogamous. I can be happy with a woman or a man, but i wouldn't be confortable with more than one person at a time, and i do want to marry someone in a monogamous relationship.

    Of course, it is totally fine to be polyamorous, but personally, for me, it wouldn't work.

    Take a look here, it may help you with some questions: The Bisexual Index | What is Bisexuality?
     
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    (Personally my sexuality is still kind of undefined), but yes - bisexual people can most definitely be monogamous, despite what some people might say. Anyone can be monogamous or polyamorous, regardless of sexual orientation.
     

  5. I am. There's a lot of data to support this.

    When you really like someone, you're not going to want someone else. That one person you're with fulfills you intellectually, physically and emotionally. I was grossed out when a straight man said "a bi woman is going to crave pussy when she's with a man." Um ewww...
     
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    I've always been monogamous with a partner. I'm human and will be honest saying that I've noticed that a guy or girl was cute or hot when in a relationship with a male or female. I have never cheated on a partner or ever thought of doing so.
     
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    I just find it ironic how my ex girlfriend (a lesbian) told me she wasn't really comfortable dating bi girls because she thought they'd cheat was the onewho ended up cheating on me. Twice.
     
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    Well anyone who wants to be monogamous can be.
     
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    Don't listen to those ridiculous people. If monogamy is what you want, monogamy is what you shall have.
     
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    That's stupid.

    Many bisexuals, like me, are monogamous. Being bisexual doesn't increase your chances of being polyamorous. Don't listen to people who tell you these things. They are ignorant. Just because I'm attracted to men and women, doesn't mean that I want to be in a relationship with both at the same time. That's just a silly misconception. I'm perfectly fine with one person at a time.
    And I know I'm not alone.
     
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