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Guy with a beer belly vs rock hard abs?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Akira12, Apr 2, 2016.

  1. MCairo

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    Those hard abs sure are pretty, but I don't think I would date someone with that. Having a clear six pack actually takes a lot of work, unless you have lucky genes, and I'd prefer to date someone who did something else with all those hours at the gym. (Seriously, having and maintaining those abs can almost become a part-time job)

    I wouldn't mind a little belly. Arms and chest are more attractive to me and also take less work to build it nicely.
     
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    I don't mind a little belly, to be honest, and abs are nice too, is there an inbetween?
     
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    I prefer guys with a bit of "extra padding". And they have to preferably have a bulky (large) bone structure too. Finely built guys just don't look good with me, since I have a large bone structure, AND (a lot of) "extra padding"... :lol: :grin:
     
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    I would not be dating an overweight person. At least, not noticeably overweight. I want someone who takes care of themselves. As for the abs, well, people who have them are generally people with personalities I don't like. So, if I can't stand, it doesn't matter if you have abs or not.

    In general, I think I prefer slim guys.
     
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    Abs for sure, even a "skinny" stomach if given the choice. But it's certainly not the be-all, end-all. Just a preference. Personality matters tremendously.
     
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    More skinny bitch love is needed.
     
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    I don't care if he has a six pack, I just wouldn't want to date a fat guy (or a skinny/average guy who doesn't eat well/exercise) because I want my partner to encourage me to be healthier myself and I can do the same for them. Plus being fat is just unattractive to me.
     
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    I'm honestly not too sure... I'm really not a fan of double chins, but I'm rather partial to a little belly. Overall, I think I'd agree with most of the others here and go for someone fairly in the middle. Just as long as they have a beard! :wink:
     
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    I would have to lean towards the abs. Personally they look good to me and maybe I'm a little jelous because I know I won't ever have them and it might be nice to feel them.