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Have you ever thought that you would be alone for the whole life?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Bing, Mar 15, 2016.

  1. SHACH

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    No. I've never had a gf/bf but I will eventually. I have complete confidence in that and always had. A lot of life is your attitude towards it, you know. If you see yourself alone, you mope about, you become less exciting and attractive, and you do not quite seek out oppurtunties to find a partner. If you see yourself with someone, you can positively work on being more attractive, and you're out to find a mate. You're also happier. Happiness is a function of the value of your thoughts.
     
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    Thank you.
     
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    Yes. I have problems to find new friends because I am very anxious around strangers and I was never very self-confident. So I thought that I won't find the one person that's meant for me and will die as an old cat lady.
    But even though I am still not very self-confident and still very anxious, I changed my view. First of all because I don't think there is "the one" person. And especially because I have a girlfriend. I didn't expect that and this made me realize that even if we won't work out in the end, there's always someone who will like you the way you are. It just takes time sometimes. As long as you are yourself, you will find someone.
     
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    Yes, I have.
    The reason is not even my gender identity or sexual orientation. The main reason is my genetic disorder.
    My love accepts the whole me, though. I hope he is the only one for my whole life :frowning2:
     
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    Yes.
    I'm only a teenager, but I've always felt like I would be alone.
    The thought of getting in a committed relationship scares me, because I was in an abusive relationship at the age of 12, and that made me afraid of loving someone as much as I loved her.
    I'm also asexual, so I'm afraid that unless I find someone who's also ace, I'll never be good enough for them.
     
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    I think the problem with me is my personality. I am too self-absorbed and don't care to much for others not to mention people in general to me are bothersome. Unless I meet the most selfless person in the world I think I will end up alone.
     
  7. heyguyswhatsup

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    Yes - since 12 and still at 20.

    It's not a feeling-sorry-for-myself or confidence issue as I'm fine with people and myself; it's an objective look at myself, with regards to past experiences; comparisons and composites of what others have said, coupled with their judgements towards other people.
     
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    Its not so much thought but rather know that I'll be single forever.
     
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    This is definitely me to a T. I can't ever see myself being with a man, but it's difficult as an introvert to find someone who connects on the same level as you. Friends are definitely great though but I can't help thinking whenever I see one of them with their SO that I wish it were me.:icon_sad: At least we're not alone.
     
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    Yeh..
    I very much dislike most features of my body and personality..
    And I'm a complete introvert to..
    I can't even say hello to people without feeling embarrassed..
     
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