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Does hair matter to you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RyFastForward, Mar 12, 2016.

  1. DreamerBoy17

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    Hair matters a ton to me. Actually my mom's nickname for me is "grease lightning" because of my obsessive hair gel use. :lol:
     
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    For me, I feel like there are many things we can't control about our looks. Our eyes, shape of our nose, overall facial appearance. Hair is one of the few I can control and I lack a lot of confidence, so I try to take care of my hair and keep it pretty well-groomed.

    On other guys, it isn't something I really tend to notice. I typically am attracted to guys with short hair, so if the guy has any form of short hair, it's not like I sit there and say, "He has a mohawk or his hair looks unkempt." But I guess I do have a strong preference for guys with short hair.
     
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    It matters to me in that I care a lot about my own hair (I keep it short and am constantly putting gel or pomade in it), but on other people it doesn't matter to me much.
     
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    Hair doesn't matter to me because I look good whether bald or with a head of hair.
     
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    Hair is very important to me so yes it matters it has to be perfect
     
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    As long as I am not bald, I'm happy.
     
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    Depends on what you mean by that. On me, I want either a ponytail or parted on the side of my head in sort of a punk style. If you mean what type of hair do you like on a potential partner, then hair really makes no difference to me.
     
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    Good for you travolta... :lol:

    I guess you could call me 'wax max' or something...

    It is important, 'cause as soon as it stands on my way or it grows too much, I must chop it off... Or just shave it off if I can get away with it. On the other hand, I don't lose much time with styling, if I could I would go all Kojak.
     
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    I feel as if hair should reflect your personality a little bit. I do constantly change my hairstyle though, as I am not comfortable with one style for long periods of time. As far as body hair goes, I don't like it.
     
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    I do appreciate nice hair, and always try to keep my hair up to date with my personality. (!)
     
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    I never mind the style of the hair itself, but the upkeep/care is important to me - cannot be dealing with someone who's walking around with obviously dirty/greasy hair or who hasn't even bothered to brush it (if it required brushing). Especially if they've gone out with the sole intention of meeting up with someone/group of people and it's not just a quick pop to the shops because there's no milk in the fridge.
     
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    As long as there are no bald spots, it's good.
     
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    I hate guys with long hair ¬¬ ahahha they just turns me off xD
     
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    I think hair can be important, and if it looks bad, you feel like people notice (even if they don't) I personally feel like hair can provide a valuable insight into the brain and how a person feels about themselves
     
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    I was always very sensitive about my hair. And yes, hair does matter to me. I adore guys with cute hair :3
     
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    Nice hair is always nice, but considering my hair looks like shit most of the time, I can't complain :lol:
     
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    Yes. Yes, it does. Hair's one of the first things people notice about you. And as a trans guy, my hair's actually a big part of how I present myself to people. The wrong cut and I don't pass. Also, I want to look damn good. So I care a hell of a lot.
     
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    Of course! :slight_smile: I think that beautiful hair is one of the most attractive elements in appearance for all people :rolle: I prefer to keep mine short for the current time but I really adore the guys with the long one, like here 55 Funky Men's Hairstyles For Long Hair - Manly and Modern Variations :rolle: It's one of my favourite styles for hair! :slight_smile: Looks so beautiful and masculine at the same time :rolle:

    Also maybe I'll grow mine too in future, I think that such length will be cool for me :slight_smile:

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    Hair matters a lot to me and is a huge part of my looks. I can't wait to be on T so I can present androgynously/with longer-ish, shoulder-length hair and not automatically be read as a girl.

    At the moment my hair is exactly that length. I like it but I don't like that nobody would be reading me as male (though understandable). I sometimes tie it back and play around with different styles for it.

    On other people hair is a pretty big thing I notice too, though I don't think consciously.
     
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    Soft and silky hair is amazing. :love: