Turn-offs

-Smoking, drugs, drinks a lot of alcohol: I'm sorry, but I just don't tolerate that. This is a major deal breaker.

-Religious: Nope. If you follow a religion, I don't want to date you. I prefer dating someone who doesn't need a deity to do what is right for them.

-Judgmental/Rude: You know, the kind of people who don't like something that doesn't affect them at all, but feel like they need to tell everyone about it. I especially don't like people who bitch about others behind their backs. If you have a serious problem with someone, have the nerve to talk it out with them.

-Not open-minded: Being trans and gay, if you're not open-minded a bit, then I'm sorry, but I can't date you.

-Too gross: Makes disgusting sounds all the time (I'm misophonic too :/), doesn't take care of themselves, smells etc.

-Jealous: I'm not the kind of person who could cheat because I can only crush on one person at a time. Anyway, I expect a significant other to trust me. I'm not gonna stop hanging out with my friends because I'm in a relationship. I will do the same to them, so I would like to give me the same trust.

-Someone who doesn't care about anything/can't hold a conversation: I like talking about philosophy, politics and the such. If you just go and tell me ''nah, I don't care about that'', I would get bored very quickly. I love passionate people, so if you have no hobbies at all or no interests, I would have trouble even getting attracted to you.

-Someone who doesn't respect my boundaries: I'm not a really touchy-feely person, so if you go and touch my shoulders/arms in an ungentle manner, I won't like it. It'll annoy me. Similarly, if I'm in a relationship and the person insists that I do things I don't want to, I won't stand for it. Parts of my body are a no go zone, so they'd need to respect that or I won't waste time dumping them.

Usually, I will give people a chance, but if they show one of these qualities, I will never consider dating them because I know it wouldn't work. In some cases, I would even wonder if I could be friends with them (mostly judgmental people).

 

1. Bad hygiene
2. No style/cannot dress properly for anything
3. Rude/Arrogant
4. Not confident enough
5. Not willing to listen to me
6. Overdramatic
7. Self obsessed
8. Think they're the boss
9. Clingy people
10. People who don't respect my personal space.

 

-bad hygene
-only small talk
-being mean in general
-can't hang around with my other friends
-getting jealous of me hanging out with other people
-trying to pull me out of my comfort zone.

 

A huge one is alcoholism.
Another one is being full of shit.
I could deal with bad smell if your words smell better than the average random person. I'd rather be with a stinky, sloppy genious than a mediocre victoria secret's model. After all I can always bring some perfume on you, or carry a gas mask.

 

Conservatives and conventional people
Alpha types
Boring people
People who stick their bare feet in my face

 

Poorly maintained teeth, nails and feet... :tears:

 

when they are over confident in the relationship in early days or start getting way too personal way too quick

 

No self respect or respect for others.
OR
Too much self respect - people that worship themselves and want everyone else to without earning it.

 

IDK. I know a turn-off when I see one.