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Who did you first feel attracted to and at what age?

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  1. colt

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    When I was 10, I fell in love with my best friend. We used to hold hands, but for some reason it was never felt sexual. It just felt....right.
     
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    Started to notice things at age 11, ignored them, made up excuses, etc.
     
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    The earliest attraction I can definitely remember having was Atreyu in The Neverending Story. I haven't watched the movie in years, so I really can't tell you if I think that made sense.
     
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    From kindergarten all the way to 3rd grade, there was this really cute girl named Alexis. She looked sort of like a young female... I think the woman's name was Vanessa Hudgens? Well, she kind of looked like that actress, only, well, younger. I followed her around everywhere, and during recess I would always hand her flowers. Now, you have to understand, that between my extreme religiosity and ugly, snotty-nosed kid looks at the time, I was both mean and unattractive, even for an elementary kid's standards. I also squinted my eyes all the way until 4th-5th grade, so there was that too. XD Still, she would hang out with me, but sometimes she'd say things like "We can't be friends" and wouldn't hang out with me one week because her friends hated me. Still, by the next week we were friends again. This continued all the way up until she moved away finally, to I forget where. ;~; My heart was literally broken at that age, lol...

    I had a mix between male and female crushes all throughout elementary, but that one was my first and really stands out to me. ^_^

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    I just noticed a lot of people only started to have crushes at ages 8-10... X_X That's strange, since mine was at age 6... Makes me feel weird thinking about that. Then again, from age six I used to dream about falling in love with Satan, so I was a weirdo. XD I also had a huge vocabulary, so maybe my brain just developed too fast. Right now though, I struggle to keep up in Math. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    My first crush was on a girl in the sixth grade, I didn't really understand attraction and relationships back then lololol. First boyfriend is yet to come
     
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    I kissed a boy when I was about 5, it was all right but the first time I noticed I had feelings for someone when I was about 10 for a girl in my class and I didn't have the courage to tell her. Ever since then I have only been out with boy because I guess I was scared of being Gay since it seemed to be stranger to be a foreign gay person at the age of 12/13.
     
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    There were a few times I wondered whether I liked women, like when I was a teenager and I started watching porn. I never paid attention to the man, always the woman. Then in high school there was one girl who I really really wanted to be friends with, and now that I think back on it, it was definitely a girl crush. She was beautiful and there was a rumor she was bisexual, and for some reason that made me drawn to her.
     
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    It was a boy from 6th grade or so. There were no feelings though, just sexual arousal.
     
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    A variety of my first crushes were on girls in my classes; and they occurred when I was in the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th grades.

    My first guy crush was on a Pro Wrestler named Chris Masters, and I think I was in 7th or 8th grade. When I started..ahem, doing unsavory things with him and Bobby Lashley in mind..I then knew I wasn't like "regular" guys. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I vaguely remember having a crush on this kid (boy) in about year 4 so about 8 or so but I tend not to feel strong attraction towards people unless I know them.
     
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    I can't pinpoint exactly, but around fourth grade I had a crush on my teacher, and maybe a year or two after that I began feeling what I guess could be called attraction to one or two celebrities I saw on television.
     
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    I've always had crushes on guys since I was a child, so my "first love" was a little red-headed classmate whose kisses were terrible. LOL

    Then, when I was 14, I felt a kind of attraction toward a girl who played volleyball with me at that time. I remember I tried to hide to my self this new feelings that I couldn't get deeply. After 3 years I was into another girl, with who I established a strong and deep friendship that now - I can tell it - had a lots in common with love.

    But I was I bit blind to get it. :grin:
     
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    Probably to nurse Jenny or whatever her name was in Pokémon, lol. I remember being able to understand why Brock was so smitten by the pretty ladies he met at a very young age. XD
     
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    My first "crush" was one that I kind of pushed on myself and may or may not have stolen a wheelchair for. So I pretend that never happened. I was like eleven.

    My first proper crush was a total jackass but he helped me discover my gender identity. His hair was so great *sighs*
     
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    My first crush was a girl and I was 8 at the time, it felt right and normal.
     
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    My best female friend, age 5-6, during a sleepover, I waited until she was snoring and then I kissed her.
     
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    When I was 13, I saw this group of girls in the hallway at school and couldn't stop looking at their butts and thighs. I couldn't figure out why, and I pondered it for a while. A month or two later, I had the "Oh, I get it!" moment when I figured out that it was sexual attraction.
     
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    I was 4 or 5 and he was the first friend in my class he was pretty cute, we would end up getting in trouble quite a bit and would get detention so that was fun haha
     
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    My best friend in 5th grade, so around when I was like 10 or something.

    It's safe to say we're not friends anymore.
     
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    My first opposite sex (female) crush was around 5 or 6 years, and my first same-sex (male) crush was not long after, but I didn't know it was a crush at the time.