What do you think is sexy and not sexy?

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  1. AlgebraicUchiha

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    Is this retribution??

    Regardless....

    In a female: Body, intelligence, sociable, hair, eyes, face, considerate to others, confident
    In a male: pectoral muscles, back muscles, quadriceps, biceps, triceps, deltoids, latismuss dorsi, gastronemius and soleus, abdominal muscles, forearms, jawline, hair, amusing, benevolent, neck, eyes.
     
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    What do i find sexy? Let me see...

    Sexy: personality wise: intelligent, clever, good sense of humour, little to no drama!( unrealistic?) physical wise: i like well groomed facial hair, light eye colours, physically fit, i guess, and a good sense of fashion. I don't like to judge people based on their physical appearance really, so i'm down for anything, the above is just what i persinally preferé ( french class...) i also find german and biritish accents sexy for some reason....

    Not sexy: i dunno, i've just found curly moustaches that sexy. I know i said i like facial hair, but this is one if the exceptions. I also don't find sensitive people, guys that are super obsessed with sports, and complete social reculsed attractive. As for physical: twirled moustaches( like i said), fake tans, and too much tatooing, one or two is fine, just like your whole body covered... I find it gross, especially if it's in wierd places( butt, dick, face, sole etc; ) no offense....

    In the end, just be yourself, and someone out there will love you for who you are!
     
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    Traits I find personally attractive:
    brown hair with natural waves
    blue eyed
    stubble short well trimmed facial hair
    short in height, not too short!
    Stocky, not too muscly, just average.

    Although it's hard to find a guy with all of that!
    Masculine voice and interests also, with a warm personality... Getting carried away now :wink:
     
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    hmm.. I'll fight you on this, it can be good if done well... the key is not to try too hard at it, maybe...
     
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    Sexy: Someone who is warm, intelligent, humorous, caring, mildly possessive and protective.

    Not sexy: Ignorance, arrogance, hatred and stupidity.

    Physical traits: (in women) Eyes, a little mole near lips or eyes (makes me weak at my knees, Marilyn Monroe anyone? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:) and a carefree smile.
     
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    Sexy: definitely a nice laugh, I think makeup and a nice sense of style can make anyone sexy, and intelligence can also be really sexy
    Not sexy: terrible personalities, I can't stand anyone who's fatphobic, racist, judgemental, homophobic, or rude and mean in any of those ways
     
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    Do you dislike me for being cisgender and heterosexual?
     
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    What I think is sexy: Shaggy/Flippy hair, No facial hair, guys who arnt scared to be them, tall guys, White guys, facial piercings, Neck biting,Collarbone biting, I like socked feet /-\

    What is NOT sexy: Facial hair, I'm not attracted to Africa Americans tbh, pervy old men,
     
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    Sexy: lingerie, confidence, badass-ness...badassity?, passion about something they're interested in, certain cars (not in like I have a thing for cars but you know what I mean), smiles, being able to sing and play an instrument

    Not sexy: being a jerk
     
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    Well, as long as you respect the LGBT community, then I guess we won't have any problems :lol:
     
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    I certainly do, as a matter of fact I am on the verge of being considered panromantic.
     
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    Sexy: being unique and yourself
    Unsexy: being conventional and phony
     
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    SEXY list
    Geeks are sexy! I find this kind of men very very sexy:
    -men that considered video gaming is life
    -men in fandom shirt (superhero shirt, anime shirt, sci fi shirt, etc)
    -men that plays geeky table top games
    -men in comic stores
    - AND MOST OF ALL, men that knows Pokemon
    Physically, I find tattoo, and firm bicep very sexy

    NOT SEXY list
    -doesnt like animals/nature
    -lazy
    -doesnt know Bohemian Rhapsody
    -super muscular body (the average muscular body is acceptable)
    -AND MOST OF ALL, men that thinks Digimon is better than Pokemon (I will kill you)
     
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    Things I Find SEXY: Tall guys, Not to buff but fit, a nice tush :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: XD a nice smile awesome personality very open and kind with sense of humor and intelligent in there own way I love quirkiness and the weirder the better :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Things I don't find sexy: Guys who are hot but arrogant and find them selves to be the hottest shit on earth, Close minded people, people who are one thing in front of you and another when you turn your back and dishonesty and disloyalty o_o
     
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    appearance wise my opinion is lacking, I personally don't have a strong preference when it comes to one's appearance.

    What I personally find attractive is an amazing personality someone who is kind, loyal, creative, trusting, loving, intelligent and generally just a decent human being that is what I find extremely attractive in someone, I also find it attractive if you're somewhat of a nerd/geek like me and enjoy or have similar interest's in things like comic books, video games, manga, anime, TV show's, books, movies, music, cosplaying and other things like that. I also love uniqueness, interesting people are what I find personally attractive.

    Now if I had to put something down for appearance I would say I find glasses attractive (Reader/Seeing one's), I for some reason find glasses extremely attractive.

    Things I don't find attractive:

    Unfaithfulness

    Racist

    Homophobic

    Transphobic

    Rude/Impolite

    Sexist

    Buff Men/Women/Non-Binary/Gender-fluid and otherwise, but that is only my personal opinion.
     
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    Sexy:

    As a Vers guy I find different things sexy in different people, but there are some general things. Intelligence and a good sense of humour are very sexy. A guy who knows when to wiggle his eyebrows...:kiss::icon_redf
    In guy I'd like to top, I find being a little shorter sexy. Shyness is a REAL turn on. Expressive eyes are beautiful, colour doesn't matter. A sexy/cute smile and a friendly personality. On the other hand, if I would bottom for a guy, he needs to be a gentleman. A reasonably fit guy with sexy calves do it for me.

    Not sexy:

    Arrogance is number one. Rude guys who drink too much. Guys who don't think things through.:eusa_naug