My last boyfriend & I could not have been more different. We had some similar interests and life goals which kept us together, but he was very much an effeminate stereotypical gay guy (I don't use the term in a negative way, that's just how he is), and I (to use his description of me) am not "stereotypical at all." We had very different ways of going about things and approaching the same problems. We were very much the couple from The New Normal, or Sebastian and Robbie from Foster High.
I have a partner, wow I must be good at keeping secrets...... even from myself. Note to myself: be more transparent :roflmao: Hmmmm me and my crush are very similar in ways, like we have the sane opinions, we share a common love for the Beatles...... We both hero-worship Steve Jobs, and we both have a deeply emotional side which is hidden from everyone all the time.
We share many similar interests. MY Wife might be a lot like me! In the closet, unsure of her gender/orientation. Maybe once I come out to her, she will have her awakening
I don't have a partner at the moment, but the girls I like to imagine myself with are girly, while I'm more... I wouldn't say butch, because I wear some feminine clothes and accessories, but I'm more kinda inbetween genders, look-wise. (And personality-wise) All my girl exes except for one were "girly" girls, with the long hair and the mascara and whatnot. Sooo... I'm probably not very similar, neither to my imaginary partners, nor real ex-ones
My boyfriend and I are both similar and different. We have the same values and similar personalities. Neither of us fit the gay stereotype, especially him. I've never met a gay man so lazy with his wardrobe and appearance. It has its charm though. I'm a lot more OCD with what I wear, how I do my hair, working out and all that stuff. I don't think we look alike at all, but a few times we have been mistaken as brothers in public. We share similar interests but have a lot of different ones too. He's into theater, watcing sports, comedies and weed. I'm into music, working out, thrillers/drama and alcohol.
My partner and I have a lot of similar interests. At the same time though, we also have differing interests. I feel like if we were the exact same, then we would get bored with each other.
same: taste in music ethics humor t.v. shows we like to watch hobbies political leanings Different: Religions, but very compatible(she's Taoist I am Pagan) types of Feminism way we raise kids/chores and punishments communication styles dress/how we dress(ie how much skin to show for instance) drug legalization, prostitution legalization and views on porn money, I spend she saves what constitutes cheating(hers is more stringent so we both live by that idea. LOL) It all works out for us however, 12 years so far .
