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So It Begins

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Magenta Mucus, Jan 1, 2016.

  1. Magenta Mucus

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    I came out to the first member of my family minutes ago! And she took it real well!

    My niece, by the way.
     
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    That's awesome! I'm so happy for you! :eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap:eusa_clap
     
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    that's great! good for you.
     
  4. Magenta Mucus

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    Yesterday I came out to my best female friend as well.

    Guess I officially kicked off my Coming-Out Crusade then.
     
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    Congratulations for setting yourself free!
     
  6. Magenta Mucus

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    Well, today a week ago I told my other best girl friend and within five minutes she had arranged her new gay bestie's life for three weeks! She took it so well I decided to come out to my entire Biology class today as well as my crush and his best friend on Wednesday. So far, so good!

    Quote, Zanke (my bestie):

    "Ooh, I've always wanted a gay best friend!"
     
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    Congrats!!!
     
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    Ok so missed a few updates:

    *My bestie made a coming out.
    *My school knew within two weeks due to a girl finding it.
    *Entire school found out bout him and by extension me.
    *Is now a common subject at school.
    *Gained support immensely, with very few haters.

    That was all about 5--3 months ago

    *Did a thing and went out with a guy in school.
    *Someone found out.
    *School went crazy.
    *We broke up.
    *Developed crush on two new boys, one new guy (DW) and another (called H in another, older post in different thread).
    *Inexorably drawn to both.
    *Told mom and sister in fight. Also, won fight.
    *Since, good nephew found out along with stepsister, stepdad.
    *Completely openly gay at school, and it feels amazing.

    Now,

    *Bestie got someone cute and sweet.
    *Can't stop talking aboht him.
    *I'm suffering from gay-never-gonna-have-crush-love-me-syndrome.
    *He is driving me mad.
    *Every time I tell him my world is on fire, he gives me a marshmallow to roast. (Inbox me on VM if you get this.)
    *I told L (his bf) that if he breaks my bffs heart, I will rip out his intestines, feed them to him, and then hang him with them, while they are still attached, then flay every inch of his skin of with a whip.
    *L is now afraid of me.

    Also,

    *Good friends with H by nos. Regularly seeing him for homework help, cuz im smart and hes less smart.
    *Talked with DW first time last week wednesday. Now, i see us as acquainted.

    So far, so good.
     
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