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Can you imagine a wedding?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by lovetoomuch, Dec 24, 2015.

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Can you imagine yourself having a wedding with family and friends?

  1. Yes

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  2. No

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  1. Beebop

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    I seriously doubt marriage is in my future.
     
  2. Aspen

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    I picture my wedding to my girlfriend fairly often, but never with extended family (on my side). Even with a best case scenario reaction to my coming out, none of them would come to a same-sex wedding.
     
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    Do they do athiest weddings? Im allergic to churches
     
  4. lovetoomuch

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    Thanks for all the responses everyone! Nice to see I'm not alone on this - I hope everyone has a Happy Holiday!
     
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    If/when I get married I want it to be something small. But I do want an expensive honeymoon.
     
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    I love to imagine myself getting married. :love:

    Well, a lot of people get married in parks or on beaches, it seems. I certainly don't plan on getting married in a church, and I don't think that's really unusual (even for a religious person, that wouldn't be considered unusual).
     
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    My Mum told me that she would just use it as an excuse to embrass and annoy me so I told her flat out if I ever get married she isn't coming (and she doesn't even know my sexuality)
     
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    Been there, done that, got the jewelry (and the husband) to prove it..
     
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    I'm gonna bag me a rich one!!!!
    Jk jk.

    I think I'll make an awesome husband and a kickass father one of these days. I just gotta make one of these boys settle down with me lolz. he has to be really persistent though.. because most of the time I just assume everyone is straight XD
     
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    I'm not anticipating ever getting married. If I did, I'm pretty sure my friends would come. Less sure about my family. I'd probably do what most of my friends have done and have an informal ceremony at home officiated by my friend who got ordained through some online church lol
     
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    Yes, happily. I'm lucky enough to have a very accepting family, even those I don't know so well, and I can imagine them at my wedding. However, I don't think I'd have a big wedding with extended family- just not my style.
     
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    My family probably won't be at my wedding because they'll probably disown me when they find out I'm marrying a girl.
    Agreeing with some, I don't think I need a huge wedding. Just need the people who support me there.
    But yes, I'm definitely planning on getting married.
     
  13. whynot

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    i do imagine it.. but same-sex marriage is currently not legal in the place where i live.. and i don't have a significant other.. so it might not be anytime soon..
     
    #33 whynot, Dec 25, 2015
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    Yes but I wouldn't ever marry another guy. I don't think it's right.
     
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    Getting married July 31 next year! So yes!
     
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    Why it isn't right? Because of your internalized homophobia? :dry:



    Aw! Congrats! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Yay! I'm so happy for you!

    To answer the question, yes, I can definitely see myself getting married to the person I love one day. :slight_smile: