Okay so lately I find myself wishing I was a woman. I did one of those Virtual Makeover things online and liked the results. I find myself wishing I had a woman's figure, could wear women's fashions, and I managed to try on a wig today and realized i liked the feminine look. oh and my mother once told me that , had I been born a girl, she would have named me Melissa. the thing is... I like that name and wish I could use it. so I'm kinda wondering what's going on with all of this? am I trans? and What are some ways I can explore the possibilities?
Heck you could be a woman, you could just love crossdressing, and you could even be neither. <3 No worries!!! Is it fun? Do you like the feeling of just doing something fun? Or is it more relaxing than anything? For me I love to dress in my normal clothes because it validates all those times I used to say "I'm not much of a guy" throughout life. How do you relate to other women? Do you dislike eing called a boy or, rather, do you prefer to be called a woman, even if by accident?
Well, you could be, you could also just like crossdressing; it's hard to tell. Do you dislike being treated as and referred to as a male? can you see yourself being male when you grow old? etc.
I'm not sure really. I haven't really paid much attention whenever someone calls me "sir". however I don't really care for being called "young man". I will say that I tend to focus on the the well meaning rather than the exact words. I will say that I most definitely do not see myself growing old as a male. In fact I think that I would prefer to be a mom than a dad.
Have you usually been more of a "guys are weird, girls make more sense" type of person? That was a big tip off for me.
