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Lonely

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by A Person, Dec 22, 2015.

  1. A Person

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    Hey everyone hope holiday season is going well,

    I'm sorry to bring a more somber tone, but I feel very lonely. I feel like my friends are often leaving things out of me, and when they do invite me its out of pity of because they realize I know about the event. I don't know what to do about it, and on top of my anxiety in general and feeling alone about being gay it really sucks.

    Thank you
     
  2. molsen7961

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    I know the feeling of being lonely. I have very few friends, of which I only speak two once every few months because they don't go to the same school as me and we're not that close. I've only ever had one super close friend - my best friend - and we started dating and just broke up yesterday. On top of all that, I recently switched schools so I have no friends. I literally sit in the library during lunch, and because there's no eating allowed, I'm generally skip lunch on a daily basis. I know a lot about being lonely - I have social anxiety and am not good at making friends. If you ever need someone to talk to, you can always talk to me - it's anonymous and you can guarantee I'd never judge you (unless you're a serial killer...then we'd have problems). Anyways, I'm lonely and in need of a friend too. I'd love to have one, even if he was online and I didn't know his real name. Am I begging enough yet? Oh, and I'm sixteen too...you don't have to worry about me being some crazy old lady.
     
  3. Chierro

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    Hey bud, long time no talk!

    Trust me, I get the feeling of being lonely. Ever since the semester ended I have had basically no social interaction with anyone other than my family. I really hate it.

    When I was in high school I was basically in the same boat as you. The few friends I had would always do things without me and I was very rarely invited. I'm glad to be out of that environment.

    Just remember that you've got a whole bunch of people here who are ready and willing to make you smile!
     
  4. MetalRice

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    I'm very lonely right now, my family is constantly fighting and it feels so alone; I can relate OP *hugs*