This is for The Parents

Thank you for reviving this festivalhinge! In the wake of Orlando, I have been feeling more tender and anxious. I had kept NPR off on the ride to school thinking that I could just protect my daughter a little while longer (only 12). Then someone told her and I was so sad. I am fully committed to helping her be a goddess warrior and we cried together.

 

Yes, you guys are literal super heroes in every way and I wish I could find every parent who's ever posted in this freaking section and give them a gigantic, fabulous hug.

 

I just want to say that I envy your kids so much that they have parents who actually search for advice on how to be the best version of themselves in dealing with their children's uniqueness.

 

I am glad there's a site like this. I've learned a lot by reading here.

My son is in the process of coming out, and I'm scared for him.

 

Hi Reggie, I would create a thread about your son, describe his circumstances, and the rest of us will offer whatever advice we can.

 

While this thread is at the top of the list, I thought it might be an idea to link to this page from the Empty Closets resources area: Empty Closets - Parent and Family Stages of Grief

Even the most accepting of parents may experience a tinge of sadness, regret or worry when their kids come out and the stages of grief page helps to explain some of these feelings. It's also a useful resource for kids who are planning to come out to parents/family members.

 

Is there a way to rename threads?

I did start one, but incorrectly called it my gender fluid daughter. I've learned a lot on a short time, including his preference for trans male over FTM or even AFAB.

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Patrick,

I'm going to start a new thread about stages of grief. That's interesting. I'd be interested in your thoughts.

 

Even though I'm not a parent, I'm so grateful for this post! Parents need to know that their lgbtq+ children appreciate acceptance and support so much. Support can really help someone through a tough time, and I know that from experience. My mom is very supportive and attenpting to understand this as I become more comfortable with myself and come out to more people, and so does her fiancee. My father is slowly coming around a tiny bit, but when he first learned I was questioning he responded negatively and it hurt a lot, resulting in me cutting off contact with him for months. So I respect the parents who are open-minded, even if they don'f understand, because it shows that they love their child so much they are willing to keep supoorting them for who they are. <3