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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Shawn Kemp, Dec 4, 2015.

  1. Shawn Kemp

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    Hello! I'm 26 and it's the 1st time I'm using a site like this. Still figuring out my sexuality and I hope you'll help me(&&&)
    I realized I had attraction to men when I was 17. I hadn't really even questioned my sexuality until then. But looking back it was so obvious.
    First I had constant fantasies and dreams about marrying my male best friend in 5th grade. I dismissed it at the time as just thinking that we were good friends.
    Then when I started to explore porn my favorite type was MMF threesomes. I justified this as an insecurity in being able to please a woman so I thought that it would be less worrying if another guy was there to help.
    Once I woke up with my arm wrapped around a guy after a night of drinking. No sex, just cuddling.
    I also had a problem of getting an erection every time I took a shower at a public place. I justified this as being insecure about my penis and my body wanting it to look bigger. Now that I know why I get an erection around naked guys I can control it, but then it was a big problem for me.
    I was always attracted to girls as well, so I'm supposed to be bisexual, but I don't want to rush and to label myself right now.

    Nice to meet ya!:thumbsup:
     
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    Hey! Welcome to the forum. I think it's always good to find out more about yourself, including exploring your sexuality. :slight_smile: Hopefully you'll find EC really helpful in that regard! We're all super friendly here. Have fun, and let the staff know if we can be of any help!
     
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    Hi there! Welcome to EC. ^.^
     
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    Hey there! I'm glad you joined. I hope you learn more about yourself during your time here. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile: everyone is quite friendly and helpful on here so I'm sure you'll fit right in!
     
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