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  1. Mental

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    Are you the dominant, passive, or neither?

    For me:
    Male-male: passive
    Male-female: somewhat dominant (possibly neither depending on the other person)
     
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    I kind of echo inamirrordarkly, I'm all over the place. It really depends on the relationship dynamic and what sort of mood I'm in. I've been in relationships where I'm highly dominant, I've been in others where I've been much more passive/submissive. I've been in relationships where it's pretty equal "power sharing," others where the other person wants zero control, and others where the other person takes the reigns (and I'm not just talking about sex either).
     
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    I have a strong belief that good relationships are dynamic - no one is permanently dominant or passive. A partner will be dominant when they need to be, and so will the other partner.

    I tend to be neither. I can be dominant or passive when I need to.
     
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    A little of both, a little of neither.
     
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    I'm definitely passive. It's always been that way, and it always will be.
     
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    Me too.
     
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    Dominant :slight_smile:

    I'm a little more lenient/passive with other women, but even still, I like to be in control. (Not in a scary, evil way though)
     
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    i'm the only one.
     
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    I'm the submissive one with super monster strength XD
     
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    Passive most likely? Not like I'd know lmao but I suppose that'd fit me better.
     
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    I'm going to correct myself.

    Male-male: passive (though kind of like a tsundere when not alone)
    Male-female: equal, there isn't really any showing of dominanc from either side
     
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    What about passive-aggressive? lol

    Although, seriously, both because I'm a
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    I can fill in both positions fine, depending on whether we feel like switching things up.

    ...But I definitely prefer being the submissive. ^///^
     
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    In life I'm more submissive so I'd imagine I'd be more submissive in a relationship. I'm sure I could do both but I like being submissive. I guess I won't know for sure till I try it :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: But yeah I'm more than likely more passive/submissive.
     
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    Whatever is more fun at the time.
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    male-female: dominant
    male-male:equal
     
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    Neither. I don't believe in relationships where the partners aren't on the same level. I've suffered watching my parent's relationship and have no desire to copy it. My mom is an extremely giving, passive person while my dad is arrogant and never likes helping people.
     
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